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Monday, August 8, 2022

17 Days in Pennsylvania

We arrived to Raystown Lake on a Saturday, chaos everywhere. Long lines at the boat ramps, 30 vehicles deep waiting to launch their boats. I am tempted to set up a lawn chair with a cooler full of beer and watch the show at the boat ramp. Talk about entertainment, as these weekend warriors try to back their boats in the water with the pressure of all the other vehicles behind them. On top of that, their spouses are frustratingly giving them directions on what to do.

We got set up in our campsite at 7 Points Campground, sat in our chairs and just absorb everything that is going on around us. It is far from relaxing. Kids screaming, dogs barking, loud music blaring and the constant drone of all types of watercraft on the lake coming and going. Total chaos. Why do people subject themselves to this? This cannot be fun and relaxing. Fun and relaxing is a quiet peaceful campsite with the murmurs of your neighbors talking around their campfire as you watch and listen to the birds flit from tree to tree.

Slowly, I begin to realize how spoiled we really are. Although this may not be our idea of the ideal weekend, the people around us are having a good time and thinking to themselves, it does not get any better than this. This is their escape from the realities of life. This is their relaxation time. This is their opportunity to make lasting memories with their families. This changes our attitudes entirely and we begin to enjoy seeing everyone else have fun and enjoy their weekend away. The screaming kids, the boats and all the activity no longer bother us. Well, except for the barking dogs that is. 

Jessica and Shane fall into this group. This is the week that they have been looking forward to for months. They arrived about 5pm on Sunday afternoon for their 5-day escape. By then, most of the families have moved, gone back to their homes and to work. What remains is the older retired couples and the odd family taking the week off to enjoy the lake.

The next 4 ½ days were a blur. A blur of boating, swimming, fishing and tubing. 

The tubing is the reason I groaned every time I got up for several days. It was an effort to stand up then it took me a good 2-3 seconds before my body catches up with my brain and actually moved. I used muscles this week I have not used in years. I am certainly no teenager anymore!

Speaking of which, tubing certainly has changed in the last 40+ years. When I was growing up on the lake our tubing consisted of a repurposed black tractor tube filled and dotted with patches. We would tie a ski rope around it and away we would go! I can still remember getting wacked by the loose end of that ski rope handle as it bounced in front of our faces. Then there is the dreaded valve stem that will invariably leave a lifelong scar as a reminder.

Today’s tubes have connectors for the rope, seats and handles, yes, handles!

Me with Jessica

We tubed for hours several days.......

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                      Dylan and Kendall                                                          Barb and Dylan

My old tubing skills came back to me and they made it their mission to dump me, but no one was able to do it. But I am paying for it now! Here is sample video of our tubing adventures....

I did pass on the cliff-jumping however. The thought of Barb spoon feeding me and changing my diapers the rest of my life left me an observer safe in the boat.


Shane making the big leap!
The girls (Zoey and Dakota) swam every day. At first, we only let Zoey wade in the water. French Bulldogs are so front heavy they have a hard time swimming. In fact, many of them cannot swim at all. That just reminded me of a miniature Dachshund we had named Mario when we lived on the lake in Wisconsin. I was going to take him swimming, so I carried him down to the end of the dock and gently lowered him into the water. Before his little paws ever hit the water, they were doing that whole dog-paddle thing. So, I set him in the water, he proceeded to flipped over on his back and sink! I can still visualize him sinking, upside down, with his little brown eyes staring up at me as he sunk to the bottom.  Apparently, Dachshunds cannot swim either. But I digress.... 

Dakota was out in the depths retrieving the sticks we were throwing for her and poor Zoey was on her leash in the shallows whining because she wanted to swim with the big dogs. So, I went and got her life jacket and it was game on! She took to the water like....well, a French Bulldog in a lifejacket took to water! 

She swam and swam and swam. It was like she found a whole new playground and just swam around with no apparent destination, just meandering around the lake. It was hilarious. So funny in fact, I made this minute and a half video for my good friend Harry!

All too soon, our 4 days were up, and we had to pack up and head to Jessica and Shane's place in Greencastle. 

The next week went by in a blur. Jessica and Shane had to work during the week leaving Barb and I home with the kids. Well, Barb mostly, as I went to work with Shane most days as he worked on remodeling a local house for an investor. While Shane was remodeling the bathroom, I was busy with smaller projects. Like replacing hardware and hanging cabinet doors.

Changing the faucet in the kitchen sink 

Power washing the house.

and putting a new ceiling on the covered porch. 
As you can see this house is rough with a capital "R". But the investor only wanted a couple things done before he rents it so that is what we did. 

A couple other of the more memorable events were eating a 1/2 bushel of blue crabs we picked up one afternoon, going to an "all you can eat" snow crab restaurant, Shane smoked some delicious rubs and Barb made her world-famous potato salad. And of course, there was pizza on the patio night, complete with begging chickens!

And a visit to the Cushwa Brewing Company. 
Kendall getting her ears pierced.....


Kendall having ice cream....
We got a lot of grandkid time. In fact, several nights we had sleepovers where Barb spent the night with Kendall in a nice cool airconditioned house, while Dylan and I spent the night with the dogs in the camper. Dylan loves sleeping with the girls. 
Dakota has her nose out the window and a fan in her face!

We made a trip to Gettysburg to do some antiquing and a visit to two distilleries. A friend of Shane's owns the Mason Dixon Distillery. Lunch there was very good. One the way back we stopped by the Lake House Distilling Co. in Waynesboro for a cool and refreshing drink. 

We also had the opportunity to play Dylan's virtual reality games using his goggles. Never again. I played a war game, Barb rode a rollercoaster. Both of us were sick to our stomachs after that experience. 

We closed out our visit with an afternoon of bowling in Hagerstown. Jess was the overall winner with a high score of 132. None of the rest of us even came close to beating her, a personal best for her.


So now we say goodbye to everyone including their ginormous black lab weighing in at a whopping 125lbs. and Cash who recently turned 18. Poor Cash'ers has cancer and is not expected to make but maybe a week or more. They were waiting for us to leave before making any decisions. Cash has been a part of Jess and Shane's life for almost 1/2 of their lives and all of both kids' lives.

Tomorrow morning, we begin the last leg of our journey. We will be home in less than a week! Although we have really enjoyed the past 4 months, we are ready to get home and just plant our feet in one spot for a while. But the adventures are not done yet, we have big plans for the next few days! 

40 comments:

  1. It’s Gay…what fun! We know all to well how special visits with the kiddos are. And we know all to well how much we love our fur babies...prayers for your family. Love the chickens, the ice cream smile and the sleep over!

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    1. That ice cream smile is something else isn't it? So good to see them again.

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  2. What fun times with family, making special memories too. Four months flew!

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    1. Parts of it seemed like yesterday, others seemed like forever ago. Looking forward to getting home though.

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  3. Wow, I can't believe it has been that long that you have been on the road! It has gone by fast! Always fun to spend time with family! Seems like you and Barb made a lot of good memories with the time you got to spend with your kids/grand kids! I agree, I wouldn't have done a high dive either. That is interesting about the dogs and swimming. I just assumed all dogs could swim :) Safe travels for the rest of your adventures!

    betty

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    1. We wish that we lived closer to both our kids so we could see them more often. Once a year or so is just not enough.

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  4. What a fantastic journey- thank you for allowing us to vicariously share all the various memories; Atlantic Canada,US East & now family & Pennsylvania.Not much wonder you just wish to be home with your feet up,lol.All the best,A James

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    1. Glad you enjoyed traveling with us. I am sure more adventures await us in the coming months. Oh, and more work as well. There are a few projects we need to get done on the house!

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  5. I’m so happy for u guys hope too see u next year Jim n Barb have a good trip back home 🤗🤗

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  6. It looks like fun times were had by all. I have not tubed since high school. Kuddos for you getting out there and doing it. I would break every bone in my body. Safe travels as you hit the open road again.

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    1. I paid for it. I think I held on so tight in fear of breaking a few bones myself!

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  7. There’s nothing like quality family time! I had the same sick feeling playing the grandkids VR WWI flying game. Your place will feel like a mansion after 4 months in a camper with 2 dogs. Safe travels!
    Colibaba’s

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    1. I think the brains of our generation are just not accustomed to those VR goggles but I would love to try one while flying my drone!

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  8. Hard to believe you have been gone for 4 months. What great things you both have seen. Nice to have so much time with your family. Safe travels for the remainder of your journey. I bet your "honey do" list has already started for your return. lol

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    1. Oh yeah. The list is already bigger than we have time for but hopefully we can put a dent in it before our next adventure!

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  9. Grand times!! Love grandkid time but it is exhausting in a totally fun way. Safe travels home, loved the video of Zoey swimming, Harry might not like it but the rest of us love seeing the antics of your dogs.

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    1. Well said, exhausting in a fun way. Those kids have a lot of energy. Some days we can keep up, others, no so much. I know it might be hard to believe but I may have even got cranky once or twice!

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  10. Wow time has sure flown! What a great time with your family! I love the fixer upper that's being worked on especially that kitchen! I'd love to have the cracked ice counter top! Great family picture at the end. You two are braver than me, with Barb jumping and you on that tube! So much fun to watch!!

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    1. That house needed a lot more love than we were able to give it. I think you would have liked the porcelain sinks as well!

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  11. Short visit, but really packed with fun times. The lake activities looked like a lot of fun, and unlike Harry, (sorry to pick on you, Harry) I enjoyed the Zoey swim video. Safe travels back home.

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    1. Don't feel sorry for Harry, he deserves all the grief you can give him!

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  12. Safe travels to you...gotta have some time with the Grandchildren, that is for sure. Having had my first come into this world less than a month ago, I look forward to her growing up. And I agree about the 'rock jumping', don't see the fun in it, and have known a few who ended up hitting hard and having lifelong injuries. And Zoey is so cute out there in the water.

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    1. You will love seeing her grow up. Like us, you will wish you lived closer so you could see her more often.

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  13. What a great time with the kids. The whole tubing thing is so different! We had homemade waterskis and boogie boards. We also used black tire tubes! The doggies sure had fun swimming! 18?, wow! Hope Cash goes peacefully. That will be a rough day. Enjoy your trip back.

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    1. 18 is a good run. Our hearts goes out to them as we know all too well the hole that will be left when he is gone.

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  14. Handles on the tubes - what a great idea! Still, good on you for staying on when your dislodging was the goal :-)) I can so relate to both reactions to the chaos of summer weekends at the water - so exhausting and different from what we enjoy and yet wonderful to see families and young people enjoying their time off! Love the begging chickens!!

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    1. I have seen chickens chase their owners around when they thought they were going to get fed but never beg like that!

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  15. When we stay at an rv park for a week or longer I enjoy the changes. Quiet during the week and crazy on the weekends. I enjoy watching the families have fun.

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    1. It is amazing how much a campground can change in just a few days, or even an afternoon sometimes!

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  16. Great to hear what a wonderful time you all had together. Such great memories for the grandies :)
    I remember once when friends visited us and their black lab jumped into the swimming pool - and promptly sunk to the bottom. One of the group had to jump in and rescue him!

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  17. i am exhausted just reading this!! i am sure you have had a blast but i agree, it will be nice to get home, i LOVE being home!! i enjoyed the video of zoey swimming...and seeing the kids tubing, i have not been tubing since i was a kid!!

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    1. You and me both! We have moved on from Pennsylvania and our pace has slowed down a bit.

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  18. I just realized I hadn't seen any posts from you guys in a bit, so I pulled up your site and it looks like I didn't get email notifications for your last two posts. Did something change with your email system?

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    1. I am not aware of anything different but who knows with Blogger! Perhaps enter your email again and see it works next time?

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  19. There are so many things in this entry I could comment on. Acting like a kid on a tube (and then paying for it), crazy time at the lake, working on vacation, eating crabs. It all looks like awesome family time. We are ready for some of that also. Can't wait for the next one.

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    1. Good times for sure, our next post will have adventures but not as adventurous as this one!

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  20. You remind us all, those of us who value peace and quiet at the campground, to remember that there are lots of ways to have a good time, and to be more patient and forgiving - and even enjoy other's joy!

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    1. We had to remind ourselves of the fact that everyone else is out there for the same reason; to relax, have fun and enjoy family.

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