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Wednesday, October 23, 2024

It's a Dog-Eat-Dog World

We have (had) 7 kids in our family 3 boys, 4 girls, all born between (I think) 1952 and 1964. Plus, mom lost one somewhere in the 50's before I was born. 7 kids under 12 would make for one crazy household. 

Now, all of us are in our 60's and 70's with me living the furthest away. I would not say we are a close family, 6 of 7 of us will call and text on holidays and other special occasions and each of us know we love each other.  Well, we lost one of our sisters this week. My sister Beth, who turned 70 this past September, passed away on the 17th. With a family of our size, one cannot help but wonder who would be the first one to go, she had heart trouble that caught up with her. 

I am not writing this for condolences as I have not seen or talked to Beth in almost two decades. She lost touch with our family some time ago and did not wish to reconnect. Any condolences should go to her kids who lost a mother, grandmother and great grandmother. We had a lot of good times together back in the 80's and 90's when we hung out together quite a bit and I choose to remember her from those times rather than the later years. One thing I will always be grateful to Beth for, (although I do not remember it) was saving my life in the early 70's, if I had to guess, I would say I was probably 8 years old. 

I remember the incident, but not the aftermath. My brother Bob and I were in a small boat on our lake place in Wisconsin when the motor caught on fire, and we had to abandon the boat. I did not know how to swim and was told that Beth swam out and drug me from the bottom of the lake to shore. All I remember is panicking in the water and waking up on my parents' bed. So, for that, Beth, thank you. I hope you are happy and at peace. 

Now, on to happier news. We currently have 6 dogs in our household. We are watching our nieces two dogs and along with our two and Forrest and Somer's two, that makes for chaos. You know what else it makes for? Dog videos!

This is what our house looks like in the morning before Forrest and Somer get up and their dogs join us. 

Don't let the peaceful and tranquil photos feel you, when they get ramped up, it is chaos! You can usually find one or both of the Frenchie's on our laps as in the picture above where they are both on Barbs lap. As you can see, Loki still has leg problems, the poor thing is going on months now with braces or casts on his leg. But he has come to like our couch and seems quite comfortable up there. 

Sophie is very vocal, her breathing alone is very snorty and when she does not get her way, she lets you know it!
This is pretty much a daily occurrence. Actually, several times a day. Zoey is the boss of all of them and as you will see, sometimes, she needs to lay down the law!
At other times, they just chill like little angels
I'll tell you what this week has done. It has cured me of wanting a large breed dog for our next puppy. Over the past week, I have come to love Loki, but OMG, I just do not have the energy to keep up with and train a puppy. The bad: running into screen doors, not once, not twice, but continually thinking that the screens is going to disappear all by itself. Not listening at all when called, pulling on the leash and trying to drag you around on a walk, jumping up and scratching doors when you go into the bathroom, bedroom or go outside, barking in the middle of the night for no reason at all. 

The good: The loving look he gives you like you are the only thing in the world that matters will melt your heart, the nose nudges in the middle of the night as he comes up to the bed to make sure everything is all right. The willingness to please and learn. He is a very lovable dog and when his leg issue is behind him, they can really focus on training. 

Friday night/Saturday morning was a s#$tshow. Loki woke up at 2am wanting to go outside and of course Sophie wanted to go too. Dakota and Zoey just looked at both of them like they were crazy and stayed in bed. I turned on the lights and waited for the deer to run away as we don't need the dogs to see the deer and try to chase them. Coast clear, I picked up Sophie and led Loki out to the pen at the gazebo, release the dogs and close the gate, what I did not see was the rabbit also in the enclosure, but the dogs did!

The chase was on! That poor rabbit ran to and fro bouncing off the fence as it tried to escape. It looked like a pinball bouncing off the fence on one side, then the other, then another, with the dogs hot on its tail. Finally, it ducked under one spot and disappeared into the darkness. Sophie tried to duck under as well and Loki tried to go over, I am sure my yell woke up the entire neighborhood! Luckily, they stopped, turned around and smelled around for another rabbit to chase. 

After getting them back into the house I was now wide awake, as was Barb, as was now, Dakota and Zoey. So, we decided to take a soak in the hot tub (Barb and I, not the rest) before going back to bed. 

Poor Zoey had a traumatic week as she had to go into the vet and get a few teeth pulled. The trouble started a few months ago when we began noticing her breath started smelling like something crawled in there and died. Then when Barb found one of her teeth in bed a few weeks ago she made an appointment to get her looked at. The vet said she could not tell how many teeth were bad until they put her under, but it would be approximately $100/tooth and set up the appointment. Well, that appointment was this week and 7 teeth later, her breath no longer smells like @ss, and our pocketbook is a little lighter.

That night we headed to the VFW as the Queen of Hearts is still going strong at $36,000. We met Dan, Bonnie, Merril and Vicki as well as Forrest, Somer and Lily. The game still continues as no one won! We then headed to The Beacon for open mic night. 

Then Saturday night we had neighbors, Jim and Carmen over. I brought out a dozen or so of my new bourbons for Jim to try. By the end of the night he was feeling no pain, we went from all smiles to head down on the counter in a matter of minutes at the end of the night!

Sunday was...... Football day! I do not know how many jerseys Barb has but when she saw I was watching football at 8am in the morning (the London game), she asked who was playing. I told her, and the next thing I knew out she comes with a Jacksonville and Panthers Jerseys! She said she purposely put the Jag's jersey on Zoey as she thought they were going to win, and they did!

Then she asked who the Vikings and 49'ers were playing as The Vikes are Alana's favorite team and the 9'ers is Ryan's team. Out she comes with two more jerseys for each of their opponents and dressed their little Sophie up in each. And you know what? Barb went 3-0 with each of these teams winning. I am pretty sure Vegas is going to start following our blog to see who is going to win each week!

Sunday is also Somer's favorite day as she can watch football... A l l....D a y....L o n g. She was so excited to see football on the TV when she came in, she asked "How many games do we get to watch today", I replied "With this early London game, we can watch 4 games, 12 hours of football!" Her response of "Yay" could have been a little more enthusiastic, but I think she hadn't fully wakened up yet. So, she settled on the couch to watch 12 hours of football with three of her 4-legged friends.  

When Lily came in, she ignored the game on TV and went straight to her puzzle. She, Barb, and Somer have been working on it all week long. Pretty soon she says, "Everyone come here". We get up and go over to the table to see her holding the final piece of the puzzle!

She was so happy! She and Barb immediately went online and ordered a new 1,000-piece puzzle! 

Then it was off to Kevin and Cheryl's to see their mini donkey. Ever since Forrest was a little boy he wanted to mini donkey and apparently, he is still infatuated with them 30 years later. We should have called first as when we got there, no one was home. But we made the most of it by taking selfies with both Festus and Zeke.

We had a chance to check the trail cameras since getting back from North Dakota. One decent(ish) buck and several other interesting photos of squirrels, turkeys, birds and several coyotes, two of which have turkeys in their mouths. Hard to tell in the pictures, but the feathers on the ground near the camera tell the rest of the story. 




Check out the shadow behind this deer, I don't know how the shadow was created as at 5:14pm, the camera would be pointing directly at the sun and be behind the deer. it must have been caused by reflection off the water....


Tuesday morning, we packed up Loki and Sophie and headed to Rapid City for the big exchange. The house is quiet now. Almost too quiet and I kind of miss the big guy. Maybe a large breed dog isn't so bad after all. Ouch! Barb just hit me on the head trying to knock some sense into me!

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  1. Oh those big dogs are fun ... until they become BIG dogs. Remember, small dogs are cuter and cost less. Personally, I'd go for the mini donkey!! The shadow looks like the infrared lens on your camera. Enjoy the quiet!!

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    1. Could you imagine having a mini donkey as a pet? It would have to be a mute one as I would hate to hear them calling all the time!

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  2. That's a lot of dogs in your household! But aren't they fun. I wasn't ready for a new puppy, Mike was, we now have Kayce--and I adore her. I'm with you on the large breed dogs, portable is better!

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    1. Barb was not quite ready for Zoey after losing Daisy, but I knew that she could be part of the healing process. Neither of us have any regrets getting her.

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  3. Wow, Jim, you guys are brave! Can't imagine having that many dogs in the house.
    You are right about larger breed dogs. Our two young guys are both lab mixes and are a handful! I havevto be careful they don't knock me over, would be pretty bad right now.
    Sad about your sister. She was far too young to die,, bless her.There were 13 of us under 18 years old, and like your family, we aren't really close. Some are of course, but several I have not seen or talked to in years.

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    1. 13 under 18 years old?!? Loki could very easily knock you over if you are not careful!

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  4. I come from a long line of two kids and am perpetuating it with two kids of my own. I have only had one sibling to ever call or text so I can't imagine what it would be like to have 6 or 7 siblings.

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    1. We only had two as well. Large families are just too expensive nowadays.

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  5. Sorry my Lions beat your Vikings…oh…wait…no I’m not! Former NJ governor Chris Christie, a friend of Jerry Jones, called Dan Campbell classless for beating the Cowboys so bad. Campbell said “the last time I was called classless, I was drinking wine straight out of a bottle”. 😂

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    1. Really? You read the whole blog and all you comment on how your Lions cheated out a win against the Vikings?!?!

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  6. The last two pictures are incredible.

    I used to have a dog who was diagnosed with loose ligaments in his lower legs not long after I had been diagnosed with loose ligaments in my ankles. I often wonder if it was a lack of minerals in the water.

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    1. That is a weird coincidence. Loki was either born with or break his leg shortly after, it has been a battle for Ryan and Alana to get him to heal since.

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  7. Good morning Jim…what a houseful of love! Kudos to Lily for adding the last piece of the puzzle. And I sure hope Zoey is feeling better from her vet visit.
    The pups are so cute “dressed” up for football day!

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    1. It was cute, she was so excited to show everyone that she was putting the last piece in the puzzle. She is now gluing it all together with mage podge so she can hang it in her room.

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  8. Six siblings must have been both fun and pretty hectic, compared to six dogs in the house.

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    1. For my mother, yes. I don't remember a lot of my first 8 years or so. By then three of the sisters were out of the house.

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  9. So much dog chaos and I bet you loved almost every minute of it!!

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  10. Sorry about your sister, even if you hadn't been in touch for so long. I'm not close to my siblings, but they're still family. What a full house growing up with all those kids!

    Love seeing the pups playing. The weird lighting is really cool on that deer. Looks like a really wonderful week. :)

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    1. I feel bad for her children and grandchildren. They did not get enough years with her.

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  11. What a fun houseful! The deer photos at the end . . .

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    1. Weren't those weird? I have no idea what caused them to be like that.

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  12. Isn't Zoey a bit young to be having teeth issues??? (Looked it up and that breed is more likely than other dogs to have dental problems.) Still seems a bit young to me. Indy came up and sat beside me when she heard the dogs video...she loves dogs on the TV but typically ignores them on the computer.

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    1. She is too young, but you are right, Frenchies are prone to dental issues. Zoey had too many teeth for her tiny mouth, and they were growing every which way.

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  13. First of all, my condolences to your sister's family. My dad was the baby of 15 kids. This means his oldest 3 brothers were old enough to be his dad. Left me with LOTS of first cousins. I have laughed all through the dog story. I would have loved to have seen the dogs when they spotted the rabbit. It sure sounds fun around your place!!

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    1. That is just crazy. I know of a couple families who have 14, 15 or 16 kids. I cannot imagine what that would be like or how one could even afford to raise that many children.

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  14. I don't hunt or do football but I do love dogs and I love your pictures and videos. Barb telling Sophie that the struggle is real ... well the snuggle is real too, apparently, hahaha! I know that's all that my Rizzo wants to do and yes, smaller dogs are kind of nice because they fit better into most domestic situations. But big dogs are wonderful too. My son had a golden retriever, Rambo, who was his pride and joy. Rambo had to be put to sleep a few years ago and Andrew still grieves. Your story about your sister Beth is poignant. I'm glad you remembered your gratitude to her even though y'all did not have a relationship later in life. I do offer my condolences because losing a sibling or parent is losing a part of yourself. I have three sisters and two brothers BUT only one of those sisters is my full sister (we have the same mother and the same father). Our dad and mom split up when we were toddlers, and both of them went on to remarry and have another daughter plus a son, each. I am not close to my half siblings, except for my dad's son who I've been close to for about ten years now. I wish it were different with the others but that's never going to happen so I'll settle for what I do have. xoxo

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    1. One of Sophie's challenges is that she is vertically challenged. The only way she can get on the couch is those stairs you see in the first video. Family dynamics are weird, regardless of what family you come from. I just accept them for what they are and try not to over analyze it.

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  15. Whew! So adorable and fun and chaotic :-)) Until Tessa we always had big, shedding dogs and are definite converts to the smaller, fluffy, non-shedding doggies. Not sure I'd be up for a puppy of any size now. Love all the canine football jerseys. We watch Red Zone on Sundays and all the night time games so we have LOTS of football at our house - we're both huge fans which really makes it fun. Barb's doppleganger Jamie is on Good Morning Football most days - they could definitely be sisters!

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    1. I will have to look up Jamie on You Tube! I just looked her up, a little darker hair and they would be a lot alike! I remember you talking about football in some of your posts. If I remember correctly, you like KC or the 49'ers?

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    2. I love both those teams but my heart belongs to the Steelers :-)))

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  16. I am going to offer up condolences on your sister's passing to you because now there is no way you will be reconciled- here on earth anyway. You have so many siblings! One of my siblings died while in his forties. He had been sick since he was three. He's definitely in a better place which sounds like a cliche unless you believe in an afterlife and I do... The mini donkeys are so cute! Looks like a great week with family and friends.

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    1. I totally agree with you, it sounds like your brother struggled much of his life. That is so hard, on him, on you and everyone involved.

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  17. My goodness - your b log has the right name - Jim and Barb's Adventure. Your life seems wonderful and full.
    I lost my only brother when he was 51 -in 1997. Parents then - Now alone - I'm glad you have other siblings.
    I would not want a puppy now to train - I would want an older one potty trained.
    I watched the videos - so cute.
    I love pugs - don't have one - they snort too.
    SD seems like a beautiful state.
    That's for your comment on Chatty Crone would love you to join me. I am not as exciting as you tho....

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    1. Barb has been looking at pugs too, not sure why, we are not getting a 3rd dog!

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  18. Thank you for writing about your sister. I can relate: I have one sibling left and we spoke briefly over two years ago. Before that? Who knows when? And that's ok...families evolve and sometimes you make your own family.

    P.S. I love how Lily wanted to share the last puzzle piece with everyone.

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    1. Yup, we all make our own families. It is hard now to imagine our two kids not talking to each other, but it could happen to any family.

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  19. Big families are in my opinion the best, I wanted 5 children, Tim wanted 2 so we agreed on 3. I think it is sad when families lose touch but it happens.

    Six dogs would be too many for me the most we had was three small dogs but that was only for a short time mostly we had two small dogs, we do live in a town house with a smallish back yard, so no room for large dogs.

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    1. I thought you were going to say: " I wanted 5 children, Tim wanted 2 so we agreed on 5".
      I am thinking once Dakota goes, we will get another dog, but it will be a small one. Hopefully one that is smart and easy to house train!

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  20. What fun to have so many dogs to pet!!
    I am sorry your sister estranged herself from her siblings...at least she waited until after she saved you from drowning. My sympathy to the people that loved her.
    Our daughter Jen and her husband Andy were thinking of getting another Golden to be a pal with Sadie and have decided against it I think...you never know.
    You had a fun week!!

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    1. A golden is so tempting! But that would be a hard "No" from Barb due to the shedding.

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  21. What a crazy fun rambunctious household you have. There's never a dull moment. I love how Loki is sitting. I have a young cousin named Loki. It's sad about your sister. I have 3 sisters and I can't imagine not being in contact with them. I don't know if you remember but that one time we met you at Howling at the Moon we had just experienced our daughter "deleting" us from her life. So it happens and sometimes we don't even know why. Anyway....continued blessings to you and the family.

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    1. I do remember that, hopefully she comes around and you are able to repair your relationship with her.

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  22. The dogs are adorable. I hear you about the puppy, though. The shirts are a hoot.
    I am estranged from my brother in British Columbia. Also, my youngest son. Ain't life grand?!
    I enjoyed your tale. You have such busy lives. Thanks for sharing it.

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    1. Yup, life does have its twists and turns, but it sounds like you are handling them well!

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  23. Families are made up of individual people and not all people get along, it’s a fact of life. However it is still a loss and to all who knew and loved Beth I offer my deepest condolences.
    I loved the rabbit story! I think 6 dogs is wayyyy toooooo manyyyyyyy animals in one place! lol The yard must be a mine field.
    Barb, hit him again, I think he’s thinking about two big dogs…not just one! Maybe you should hit him twice. Lol

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    1. You are talking to the one person who I know does not read the blog, so I am safe in the fact that she will not see your comment.
      Barb goes out every morning with her trusty shovel and tosses those mines on the hillside where we do not walk, so I think we are safe.

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  24. Poor Zoey! Looks like a busy times either way dogs and friends!

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    1. She was a little slow the day of the procedure, but she bounced back the next day with no stinky breath!

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  25. Sorry to read about Beth but what a courageous women she was to save you way back.
    Kind of you both to sit that many dogs, looks fun though by the video.

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    1. It was fun, but a little more chaos than these two old folks are used to!

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  26. Hello,
    Sorry for your loss, prayers for the family. I love all the doggie photos. At one time hubby and I had 4 large dogs, 2 labradors and 2 golden retrievers, they all had lots of fun running on the fire roads and jumping into the lake. The worse part was having 4 dogs in a king size bed, most nights my legs were hanging off and I had paws and legs around my face and head and a dog on my pillow. The rabbit story brings back memories, a sad end for the bunny. I would love to have a mini donkey. Cute photos of the dogs, donkey, deer and turkeys. Take care, have a great day!

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    1. I can almost imagine what it looks like to have 4 dogs in your bed. They are all sprawled out while you and your husband are almost being pushed off the edges. Too funny!

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  27. That’s quite the doggy daycare you guys got going on there! Poor Zoey loosing all those teeth. We’ll have to get you guys some Canucks and Oilers jerseys for dogs. 🤣
    Cheers!

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    1. With all those lost teeth, I think Zoey might be a hockey player already! Whichever one of you gets the Canucks or Oilers jerseys to us first are the ones Zoey will wear on game days against each other!

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  28. With all of those dogs around, it's no wonder we never visit. Don't get me wrong. I was a dog person once, when I was a kid. My mother and brother loved dogs so we had dogs. Collies. Outdoor dogs. However they never cleaned up after them, fed them or spent time with them. That was left up to me so when you are forced to take care of them you really don't end up liking them. My father hated them for the same reasons. His advice to me was this. He said "Do you know what every dog needs? A gun shot to the back of the head." I have not watched a football game at all this year. I hear that it is just flag football for millionaires. I can watch my 6 year old grandson play that. Love the blog.

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    1. Welcome to the designation of DTDH. You and Harry make a great pair. I feel Chapter 3 coming in the near future!

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    2. Sounds exclusive. I shall cherish the honor.

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  29. Oh. I can imagine the chaos! And I had a mental image of ALL of you in the hot tub - that would have been hilarious (but not very comfortable!).
    Love your last two pictures, with the deer reflection :)

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    1. Was Zoey laying back with a martini in her paws? If you are going to imagine, you may as well go all out!

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  30. I don't know why, but your posts often don't show up in my feed until a day or two later. Anyway, that was a nice tribute to your sister. And even if you hadn't had much contact for a while, I'm sure there is much to process with her passing. I think getting a new big puppy will be just the thing to help you with that. :)

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    1. The passing of my sister affected me a little more than I thought it would. It brought back memories of all the good times we had together.

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  31. I'm sorry your sister passed away. Even though you didn't keep in touch, you will always have those memories of her, and I liked hearing the story about her jumping in the water and dragging you to shore. I smiled when you said 7 kids under 12.....my mother-in-law had 10 kids, and that always amazed me. Wow, you have a full house taking care of all the dogs! That donkey is cute. You have such pretty wildlife around your neck of the woods. I always love it when the deer pay me a visit. : )

    ~Sheri

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    1. Big families seem to be a thing of the past. You do not see too many families with more than five children anymore.

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  32. I am so sorry about Beth's passing. Even though you didn't keep in touch there must be some sadness. I lost my only sister several years ago. Distance made it impossible to see each other on a regular basis but we kept in touch regularly. I just learned her daughter will be visiting us next year and I am beyond thrilled. Loved those sweet dogs and so nice to read about everything that goes on in your neighborhood. Thank you for sharing all of that.

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    1. Distance is a killer when it comes to visiting family. Our daughter is 22 hours away, we try to see her once a year. This year we think she is coming to see us!

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  33. I am sorry to hear of your sister's passing. She sounds like she was a great big sis! Sending prayers for her entire family. Looks like it has been wild at y'all's house here lately! Haha! The dogs are all so cute and I know they have been a hand full! I'm glad Zoey is all fixed up and on the mend. Hope she is doing well. That deer shadow picture is so amazing! Very cool!

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    1. Zoey is doing well with good, or at least decent breath, and fully recovered.

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  34. I was smiling when i read this Jim because my brother who lives in NJ has 5 dogs in his home, all permanent. The 2 large ones are Belgian Malanois and then there are 2 "dust mops" not sure of the bread maybe shitzu. We will get our doggie fix over the Thanksgiving holiday when we visit.

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    1. Malanois are such cool dogs. I've never actually met one, but seen plenty on YouTube to be impressed!

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  35. Now this was a blog worth writing!! Loved the videos. Love how poor Loki is sitting on the sofa:) Your just lucky Dakota doesn't participate in this craziness! Very cool shadow of the deer in the photos. Perfect capture! Barb doesn't have to worry about using a Raider jersey. No one wears the loser jersey...every single week!!!

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    1. We play the Colt's this coming Sunday. I sense a new picture coming!

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