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Friday, February 13, 2026

The Big 4-0!

 Can you believe it? Sometimes it seems like yesterday, sometimes it seems like f  o  r  e  v  e  r. ago. And I mean that in a good way. Meaning Barb and I have always been together and there was no such thing as "A life before Barb". When I look at the picture below, I do not even recognize the person marrying that beautiful woman. Nor do I know why she married him. A moment of weakness that changed my life (and hers) forever. 

But it's true, 40 years ago this week, Barb and I got married! I was 23-year-old. Young by today's standards. I dare not mention Barb's age. After the leg picture from the other week, I think my one faux pau per month has already been used up. Let's just say she robbed the cradle. But if that is the case, why is all my hair grey and hers her natural color? Must have something to do with who is driving the other to their grave with their craziness. 

40 years ago, on that night we were honeymooning in an ice shack on Mille Lacs Lake while ice fishing. I know that many of you are wooing with jealousy right now but wait until you hear where we spent the night of our 40th. In the parking lot of a Cracker Barrel restaurant! Does it get any better than that? I think not! We did spend the day having fun though as we visited our good friends Red and Pam in Casa Grande. We first met them in 2014, our first year on the road. It had been several years since we've seen them and it was nice to meet up again. We also got to see Sadie and Cooper. Cooper is a chocolate lab that was very tempted to steal and call my own. 

After a few hour visit, it was off to Cracker Barrel where we had a restless night's sleep. I don't think I have ever been anywhere where the birds called all night long. Doves and some other bird were squawking literally all night long!

From Casa Grande it was off to Apache Junction for more visiting. That first night we found a nice bar to watch the super bowl, a so so game. It was after the game where the excitement started. After leaving the bar, we went to the camper to let the dogs out of the camper and put them in the truck. As I was saying in our last post, I have to give Dakota a little boost into the truck and this time was no different. Except my hand was wet after I push her up. It was dark, so I did not see anything. My next step was to smell what whatever was on my hand. (insert puking sounds...blech, gackh). That is when Barb came out and announced that Zoey had diarrhea "all over the camper". She told me to get in the truck while she assessed the situation. You don't have to tell me twice! I rolled down the windows as whatever happened in there was all over Dakota as well. 20 minutes later she returned saying it was all taken care of, but it was on the floor, walls, seat cushions. It was almost like she was an automatic sprinkler and rotated around the camper making sure not to miss a spot. The only saving grace was that she did not get any on the bed. 

Needless to say, we spent the next morning at the laundry mat. A couple hours later, things were back to normal. 

Then it was off to Silly Mountain for a hike! A shortish 2-mile loop up to a viewpoint.  The red circle is our truck. 

 We had a site that night in Lost Dutchman State Park and after getting setup, we were ready to meet up with our friends Harry and Vicki. Most of you know them as Harry the Dog Hater and his lovely wife Vicki. They were nice enough to pick us up from our site in the park. This is our first time at this park and let me tell you, it will not be our last. The views are incredible! 

After picking us up, they drove us to their place in Canyon Vista's RV Resort, about a 15-minute drive. They have a very nice house? Park Model? I really do not know what to call it. Whatever you want to call it, it is very nice. Roomy and comfortable. After hanging out a bit we walked down to the community area for margaritas and beers! They also had live music which was nice. 

The next day we were back at their park to watch Harry play softball. They have a 55 and over league with several levels. Harry plays on two teams, this particular one consisted of men mostly in their mid to upper 60's and even one guy over 80! I have to give these guys a lot of credit, they were out there hustling!

Harry has been a pitcher all his life and this has not changed now that he is in his 70's. I just hope I have half the energy and ambition as most of these guys when I am their age. 

We left them after the game and got some much-needed rest for a big hike we planned for the next morning. Flatiron. Those of you who have been to Lost Dutchman know Flat Iron. Touted as "Arizona's most challenging non-rope hike" with class 3 and class 4 scrambling we were determined to conquer the mountain! 

At just under 6 miles, it is said that this hike should take 4-5 hours. Historically we can get hikes done in the lower part of those timetables, so we planned on 2.5 hours up and 2 hours back. We set off at 8am from our campsite and started walking. The sun was hidden behind the mountain, so we were in the shade almost all the way up. 
Our destination? The little red circle below. 
It started out at a gradual slope for the first mile or so and then it became increasingly difficult. Breaks were frequent and our water supply was diminishing fast. There were parts where you were basically on your hands and knees as you climbed vertically up the rock walls. 
There were a handful of other people on the trail, almost all of them were much younger than us and of course passing us. At the two-hour mark I looked up and began to realize that I had seriously underestimated the time it was going to take us. We were about 2/3rds of the way to the top and still had the hardest section ahead of us. 





At the 2 1/2 hour mark I told Barb that I thought we needed to tap out. According to my device we had gone 2.5 miles since leaving the campsite and climbed 0ver 3,500ft and we still had at least an hour left. Plus, my left arch was giving out of me. So, at the 3/4 point, we turned tail and started back down the trail. I think this is the first trail where going back down was as hard, if not harder in spots than coming up. Remember those spots where we were crawling up the rock wall? It is much easier to up a wall than down! 

On the way down, I asked Barb "How often do you think people get hurt on this trail and need rescuing?" My guess is that it is pretty frequent as there were several times where we slide and had to catch our footing. Luckily for us, we were not the victims on this day and two hours, 5 miles, up and down over 3,500' each way, we made it back to the camper. Totally exhausted. 

This is the first time I think we have ever failed making it to the top of one of our hikes. But we did pretty good for a couple in their mid 60's! There were people half our age who turned around well before us. But then again, there were people older than us who made it all the way to the top as well. Another day Flatiron, we shall meet again. 

After resting up (and showering) we were ready for our next meet up! Fellow RVers Dale and Chloe came out to the camp ground for a visit.  We first met them in Quartszite in February of 2018 and have kept in contact since. While we were sitting at the picnic table at our campsite visiting, we noticed a helicopter approaching the Flatiron summit. Then it began lowering itself below the summit near the trail we were on earlier. 
Not good. We watched as the helicopter touched down and we are assuming someone got out before the helicopter went up again and hovered over the area. Soon enough fire trucks and an ambulance came through the campground and staged themselves at the trailhead. 15 minutes later the helicopter dropped back down, picked up the injured hiker and brought them to the ambulance. As if that was not bad enough, once they dropped them off they went back up to get another injured person! Not a good day on the mountain. 

Thursday was checkout day for us, time to move on. But, before that, it was time for one more meet up! Doug and Janell were blog readers who first visited us in South Dakota during the spring of 2019. They just so happened to be from the same area of Wisconsin as us. We had not seen them since then, but here our paths crossed again in Apache Junction Arizona! We had lunch with them after we checked out of Lost Dutchman. I forgot to take a picture, so I stole this off their Facebook page from last week.
Sore, tired and bellies full we are now off to Tucson!

87 comments:

  1. Congratulations on the marriage. My condolences on the dog "sprinkler" situation. I have been there and done that unfortunately.

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    1. As traumatic as it was at the moment, it is already a distant memory. Let's hope it is one that is not repeated soon!

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  2. Congrats on 40 years. We were laughing the other day about how we used to ice fish when my husband's parents were both alive and living on the lake. We'd set up our equipment and then go sit inside in the window until we saw them pop up. Grin. I haven't been ice fishing since. And that second hike looks like quite the climb. I'd tap out too. There's nothing wrong with only going as far as you feel is safe for you. But it does look pretty. Enjoy your anniversary and trip to Tucson.

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    1. My dad used to live on a lake as well and we did the same thing! We'd watch through binoculars and then jump on the snowmobile when a flag popped up!

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  3. Sorry you didn't make it all the way to the top of Flatiron, but I'm glad you were smart enough to turn around when you realized it was not going to happen. We've also watched a helicopter rescue from the campground, scary to think what could happen. See you tomorrow!

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    1. I wonder how often it happens. We looked up the cost, $27,000-$45,000 plus mileage.

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  4. Marriage .....No harder job of this world! No more rewarding job either, if you work at it! Looks like you guys totally have it down! Congratulations!

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    1. Thankfully, the rewarding times far outnumber the challenging ones!

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  5. Congratulations on 40 years 🎉 Jan and I are right behind you and celebrating 40 in May!! I am a lucky man 🍀 it was great seeing you again! Hopefully we will get back through south Dakota again soon, safe travels 🇺🇸

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    1. Hard to believe it has been that long. If only we could have 40 more!

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  6. Happy Anniversary you two! 🎉🍾🥂 From your description I could smell Zoey’s mishap…🤢 It’s alway a blast catching up with fellow RV’ers. Because of Dianne’s knees we new better not to attempt Flat Iron and chose the lower trails. Good on you guys for giving it a go! 👊 Safe travels!

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    1. Who knows, maybe with her new knees she just might give it a try! But, I know Dianne and I know better than that!

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  7. Congratulations on the milestone.

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  8. Camper ground? Grounds where you find campers? A place to electrically ground your camper in case of a lightening strike? Your blog is quite confusing.

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    1. That's what happens when my proofer doesn't proof or edit my work. Should I give you the password to my blog and give you editing rights?

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  9. Happy Anniversary! I think spending a honeymoon ice fishing sounds like a lot of fun and lots of cuddles! Lost Dutchman is a favorite of ours. We have only been once and sure hope we get back there. The Flatiron is NOT on our list, but we did walk the trail as far as we felt comfortable. We too saw the rescue squad a couple of times during our visit too. The sunsets at the park are gorgeous! You have sure met up with lots of friends…such nice memories! Have fun in Tucson…
    Oh, I am so sorry about Zoey having had issues and hope all is good with her now!

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    1. Barb mentioned that this was a favorite of yours. You are the second or third person to mention that they have seen rescues so it must happen quite frequently.

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  10. Congrats on the 40th and for doing so well on the climb. It’s all about the process.

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  11. Congrats on reaching the big 4-0. My hubby and I hit that milestone last August.

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  12. Happy Anniversary!! Oh my poor Zoey...she just couldn't control herself.

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    1. We felt bad for her, I am sure she was miserable and tried to be a good dog!

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  13. Happy anniversary, you two…and many more.

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  14. Where to start with this post! First, happy anniversary! Our 40th is this year too, and our honeymoon nightvwas right here at home, lol! I'm betting our 40th will be in the same place. But ice fishing on your honeymoon??? Yall are a match made in heaven for sure..
    I laughed so hard about the poor old dog. What. A. Mess. I can't even...
    And the hike, good grief. Scary stuff right there.
    I cannot wait for next week's installment!

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    1. I doubt next week's installment will be nearly as exciting as this one. Does it seem like 40 years to you guys? It sure doesn't to us.

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  15. Congratulations! Here’s to 40 more.

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    1. Let's see, that would put me at 103. Very unlikely, but who knows!

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  16. Congratulations on 40 years. That hike sounds like it was hard on the knees. I don’t think I would have made it, either.

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    1. Surprisingly, our knees held up well and we were hardly sore the next day!

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  17. Very impressive! both the 40 year mark and the ground covered on the hike...I am so happy to see everyone from the class of 14 keeping in touch! Cheers.

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    1. We sure had some great times over the years out on the road didn't we?!?!?

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  18. Congratulations on your Forty Year Anniversary.
    Glad to read that it was not you needing the rescue on the mountain.
    Stay Safe and Enjoy working on the next Forty Years.

    It's about time.

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    1. Us too! Could you imagine having to get rescued off the mountain like that?

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  19. Happy Anniversary coming up, well done to you both. May there be many, many more to come.
    Used to play baseball on the beach often when young if not too many people about.
    My good, that mountain doesn't sound the best to walk up and it's not good when people get hurt and need airlifting and I wonder how many of them are visitors to that area.

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    1. I am guessing that almost all of them are tourists. The ground is pretty sketchy in spots and I can see how easily it could happen.

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  20. 40 years--what a milestone! 🎉
    Your story is proof that love, laughter, and a little chaos make the best adventures. Wishing you and Barb many more hikes and unforgettable memories ahead!

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    1. Thank you! Let's hope we can keep the chaos to a minimum!

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  21. Ahhh poor Zoey. I know that problem well. Leave it to the WIFE to clean up the mess. Good try on that mountain. The more you work out like that, the longer you live. That's my theory anyway. It also takes being smart enough to know when to quit. CONGRATS!!

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    1. We did not want to become another mountain statistic. We found out that the guy that was rescued was a 57 year old man with a broken ankle.

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  22. Congratulations on 40 years--love the wedding photo!! And yes, there is no shame in turning around when you are exhausted--I've done it many times!

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    1. Being this was our first time, there was a little shame. It is probably a good thing we ran out of time, we just might have been stupid enough to keep going!

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  23. Happy anniversary to the both of you I enjoyed all the photos reaching 40 years together is a big one

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  24. Congratulations to you for reaching 40 years together. However for Barb, it's sympathy. Somehow spending your "Honeymoon" in a fish house doesn't surprise me. I took Lisa to Disney World. As far as that hike, I could probably do that one blindfolded. If you look up in the dictionary(that's a big book with words in it) extreme athlete, you will see my picture. Camper grounds? I'm with that other commenter about being confused. Is that hill folk talk for RV parks? Love the blog.

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    1. I suppose spending our 40th in a Cracker Barrel doesn't surprise you either then!

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    2. That's a step up from a Walmart parking lot.

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  25. Happy 40th! Quite the accomplishment and you're still enjoying! :) That hike would be a definite NO! Thanks for sharing, it was beautiful! Sounds like a great week with all the visiting with friends! Always look forward to your blog!

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  26. Happy Anniversary to you and Barb! I hope your Zoey is feeling better.
    Beautiful scenery and photos. Hubby and I have to give up on those challenging hikes. Happy Valentine's Day! Have a great weekend.

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    1. Zoey is feeling much better, thank you. Now it is Dakota who has an issue. Not the same issue, but an unfortunate one none the less.

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  27. Happy 40th!! That's impressive Barb lol. I made it to the top of Flat Iron jan 2020 and would love to try again someday but it will be way harder. We took somewhere around 6 hours with lunch on top and pictures. Was gagging a little even reading about the Zoey incident! Yuck

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    1. Here's the plan then. We meet you at the Grand Canyon one of these years and you watch our dogs while Barb and I hike to the bottom. Then we carry on to Flat Iron where we all hike up to the top. Except this time we plan on 6 hours and bring more water, better boots and some food!

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    2. Dog sitting don't come cheap lol. We're older now better count on all day!

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  28. Happy Anniversary! 🥂👍🥳

    Very glad the chopper was not for y’all. Good decision to turn back. Happy & Safe travels
    May

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    1. That would be horrible! Imagine not only getting hurt but then having to pay 10's of thousands of dollars to get rescued!

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  29. Happy Anniversary! 🥂 Wishing you many more years of good health and happiness!

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  30. Happy. Heartt Day ❤💘❤

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    1. It was not the most romantic, but we did have a good day!

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  31. "...puking sounds...blech, gackh..." Didn't Barb have that same reaction at the Ice House 40 years prior????

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    1. What if I told you it was her idea? You would probably call me a liar, and well, you would be right! I do not remember, but she probably outfished me that time too!

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  32. we got married when we were 19 and have been married 48 years, the best of my life. my husband is so kind, generous, and interacts with other people so well. i learned that skill from him. you are a cute couple...we have proven the marriage may not always be easy, but it is always worth it!! the landscapes and mountains are so pretty!! happy anniversary!!

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    1. That is awesome. You just have to admire couples who have been married 50+ years. I think that is becoming a rarity these days!

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  33. Happy Anniversary Week wishes to you and Barb. Sam and I have been married for 53 years and were High School Sweethearts beginning our Freshman year in HS. Looks like you guys are having a wonderful vacation and getting to explore a lot of areas. Prayers that safety will surround you both..

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    1. I love stories like yours, finding your soulmate and sticking it out through thick and thin.

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  34. Happy 40th Anniversary! A wonderful milestone.
    Sounds like you are having a lot of fun on your trip south. We really liked the Lost Dutchman State Park but it really is made for smaller rigs. The views were worth the, hold our breath (for us) around the corner, way in though...lol

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    1. Good to hear from you! I can see how LD would be a challenge for bigger rigs for sure.

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  35. Congratulations on reaching 40yrs, hope you have many more wonderful years

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  36. Great photos and stories and congratulations on your 40th Wedding Anniversary. You were and still are a wonderful looking couple. I always enjoy your adventures, thank you so much.

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  37. Happy 40th. Those are some stunning hikes. Arizona is so beautiful.

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  38. Belated Anniversary 🥂wishes to you both and what a way and location to spend it - getting together with friends and spending the night in a Cracker Barrel parking lot. Not sure if that beat the ice fishing honeymoon...probably not. Those views are spectacular, but I would not be up for that hike so kudos to you both.

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    1. Ice fishing definitely tops the Cracker Barrel parking lot. I bet she just cannot wait to see what our 50th brings!

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  39. Excellent photos. Happy 40th anniversary.

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  40. Happy Anniversary! 40 years together is quite the accomplishment. Wishing many more happy years together.
    Sounds like you're having a great trip, with good friends, good food, and some amazing views on your hikes. Glad you made it down safely!

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    1. The contrasting landscape between our wintering locations could not be much different. Even the foods. In Florida seafood is our main fare, out west, it seems to be Mexican.

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  41. That's the thing I always have to remember -- what walks DOWN has to walk UP. (Or ahead and back, as the case may be.) Well, it sounds like a great trip, with good friends along the way. And very happy anniversary wishes to you! I'm glad you two had that moment of weakness!

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    1. We almost drove back west to try and conquer that mountain again, but Barb talked me out of it and we are headed east.

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