Monday, November 10, 2025

Sometimes I Wonder.....

Sometimes I wonder if the bucks in the forest spend as much time thinking about me as I do about them?

Sometimes I wonder, why do the fish pick Barb's jig when mine is just feet away?

Sometimes I wonder, what the dogs dream about?

Sometimes I wonder, does Dino really need his scooter? Or is it just a ploy for sympathy?

Sometimes I wonder how much wood could a woodchuck chuck could if a woodchuck could chuck wood?

These, and others, are they mysteries of life that keep me up at night. 

Deer hunting has been going good. The bucks are not chasing does yet, but they will be soon! I still enjoy just sitting there and watching Mother Natures wonders. The squirrels, the birds and of course the deer. Oh, I forgot the turkeys. Out flock is over 50 birds right now and are just obnoxious! There is one hen in the flock that we call "Hop a long" as she only has one leg. What happened to her is one of the mysteries I mentioned above. She is always the last one in the flock, sometimes 50 yards or better behind; hopping on her one leg trying to keep up. 

While all the other turkey's stand on one foot to scratch the ground, she scratches and hops at the same time. To turn, she has to completely stop and turn in one place, she cannot turn while moving forward. I thought about making a video to show you, but it is just too sad. I have thought about putting her out of her misery, but she is getting along these past few weeks and who am I to say she is in misery? I saw her jump up on the water tank the other day and drink so she seems to be getting along well, just a little slower than the rest. Which, I am afraid, will make her easy prey for a coyote. 

Every time I look at a picture from that camera, I am reminded that I need to fix the time and date on it. It is a month and 10 hours off. 

I wrote the above earlier in the week before I got the news that our good friend Mike had passed away. Many of you know Mike from our Florida adventures. We first met Mike and Liz in 2016 during our first Alaska adventure. Guess where? A brewery of course!

Subsequently, we got together with them each time we went to Florida. We have stayed in their driveway several times, happy hours in their garage, numerous breweries and distilleries visited. 


This is the same Mike who treated us to a guided fishing trip on the Withlacoochee River. This is the same Mike who had these wine bottles made for us for our 38th anniversary. 

Even when we weren't in Florida, Mike and I would talk on an almost weekly basis keeping up with each other's lives. I could go on and on, but what's the point, he is gone and his passing leaves a hole in our hearts. Saying our thoughts and prayers go out to Liz rings hollow as they were each other's worlds and adored each other like none other. 

I thought about rewriting the beginning of this post as it seemed too lighthearted for such a somber week, but Mike had such a great sense of humor, he would have not wanted me to change a thing. 

The rest of the week was somber as we continued to work on the camper and garage. Barb got the stairs done in the camper; a slow and tedious job but they turned out great!


For my part, I got the steel installed on the front of the garage and got the lights installed! I just have the east side of the trailer port. Then I am about as far as I can get on the outside for a while. Here is the goofy/frustrating part of where I bought the steel from. I bought the side steel some J trim in red, the roof, some J trim and the facia in charcoal. A few weeks later when I went to order the soffit, they said that that company does not make soffit in charcoal! So, now Barb is looking for F channel and soffit from somewhere else that either exactly matches the charcoal or compliments the two other colors. 

We don't get a lot of time to work; getting up at 4:30 each morning to go deer hunting then going out to the stand each afternoon really limits the time I get to work. It is my daily therapy where I relax and reflect on how lucky we are to live and love the way we do. 

We had neighbors Jim and Carmen over one night for a bourbon tasting. It was all fun and games until Jim hit the wall and laid his head down and went night night. 

Bingo night with Dan and Bonnie was also fun, but alas, we were not winners.
The "fun" continued with a morning of concrete work with Kevin in Pringle where we poured an apron at the Fire Hall and a couple of sidewalks at the Community Center. Nothing like pouring concrete when the temps are in the 20's!


Meanwhile, in Pennsylvania, Forrest and Lily made the 6-hour drive from Tennessee to visit Jessica and family. Lily and Kendall went trick or treating and Dylan had a special birthday as he turned 16 and got his first car!
My first car looked nothing like that! I believe mine was an early 70's Ford Galaxy 500. 

Who knows what fun is in store for us this week, more project work I suppose. It reminds me of those Progressive Insurance commercials about not turning into your parents where the guy says something like "Raking leaves is something you have to do not get to do. we kinda look forward to working on our projects, which apparently, we are not supposed to do!

69 comments:

  1. So sorry to hear of your loss. Time is so precious, and it sounds like you made the most of time spent with Mike. Memories. I wonder too.....I have more "wonders" than answers most of the time.

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    1. We always had a great time when we got together. He will be dearly missed by many.

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  2. Sorry to hear of your friend’s passing. His wife must be devastated.

    I enjoy reading how you keep busy. The hunting is interesting as well. We hear gunshots along the trails in areas where geese are in open fields.

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  3. I find myself saying "what's wrong with that?" when I watch those commercials. It does sound meditative being up in the blind. Sorry about your friend, sounds like a great guy.

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  4. Another great post and my eyes went straight to the manatee as I remember all the manatee mail boxes in Florida from years ago and always wished I could bring one home. Why can't I do that I said to hubs who had visions of tying it to the roof of our small car and said, nuh-uh, and yes I am smiling. I may have said it in jest but knew it wouldn't happen. You’ve given us a lot of thoughts to ponder, why do they? I’ve seen Dino’s scooter advertised but what does he think about it? Wouldn’t his body ache after a while? That’s what I wonder and I have great sympathy for Hopalong! Do you remember Hopalong Cassidy. Yes, Hopalong made it all the way over to my part of the world and I wonder how. We used to watch his adventures on Saturday matinees at the local movie theater when I was a kid (this was in the UK). At least that Hopalong, not your Hopalong. Yes, my mind is all over the place today. I am so sorry to hear about Mike. We have had news of a relative with a very serious illness who just had a five-hour operation, and of an extended family member who sadly won’t last the week, all found out about within a week of each other. We are waiting to hear. My heartfelt condolences to Liz and all that knew and loved and will miss Mike. Live each day to the fullest is probably what they would tell us. Okay, must end my missive, but will say how much I always enjoy reading your posts. You really should publish a book? I and a lot of others who follow you would be first in line. You and Barb have a great week and thanks for the interesting tales.

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    1. Thank you for the kind words! I think you should look online for a manatee mailbox, you would be the talk of the neighborhood!

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    2. I do like the scooter for getting around the house. But in large ares like Walmart, it does take some effort after awhile because you are using different muscles. When I get tired I can just sit on it also.

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  5. When our oldest turned 16, she got my wife's car and my wife got the new car. Both were very happy!

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  6. I cannot list the things I wonder about as it could be used for my commitment hearing! Sorry to here about Mike. Nice that you have the pics and memories captured in your blog posts though :-) Both the camper and the barn are coming together and reflect all the hard work put into them! Sweet ride - congrats Dylan!

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    1. We could all do with a little less of that last item, it seems to be happening more often.

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  8. So sorry to hear about Mike’s passing. (Live and Learn)

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  9. My first car didn't look anything like that either. I got my parents 67 Pontiac Catalina. You could put a whole baseball team in it. Grin. One of my dogs dreams a lot and he's one of those active dreamers.I wonder what he chases in his sleep. And if he catches it too. Sorry to read about your loss also.

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    1. I bet you would love to have that car now, what a classic!

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  10. My sympathy in the loss of your dear friend. Wow what a nice car, I still had a bike at 16:) Good luck deer hunting. That poor turkey...would most likely make a good dinner:)

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    1. I do not remember how old I was when I got my first car, but I am guessing that it was not 16.

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  11. Loved your opening questions, we can question so much yet never get answers.
    The stairs are looking great, well done.
    To lose a friend is like losing an arm. Sad.
    Take care.

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    1. I still have his chats on my messenger feed. Sadly, I have to scroll further and further down the list to see them.

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  12. Hello,
    So sorry for the loss of your friend Mike. I love seeing all the deer and turkey photos.
    That is a nice car for a 16 year old. The camper steps look great, well done Barb!
    Take care, have a great day and happy week ahead.

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    1. Thanks Eileen, it is a tough time for sure. I feel so bad for Liz and her family.

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  13. So sorry about the loss of Mike. I feel for LIz too, it's going to be tough when you love someone that much. :( Quite the car for your grandson :) My dad bought new a 69 Ford Galaxie 500 and that was the first car I got to drive, the good ole days hhaha. Barb is something else! The stairs look amazing. The opening to the blog had us laughing once again :) Shirley and Ken

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    1. I cannot even begin to imagine what Liz is going through. I hope she is surrounded by friends and family. I think after a point, however, I would just want to be alone and process.
      It would be so cool to have that Ford now, it was a beast!

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  14. It's so sad when you lose a good friend. It certainly leaves a hole in your heart. I didn't think you could pour concrete in freezing weather!! At least that would be my excuse. It's too cold. Barb is a master carpenter ... you're a lucky guy to have her.

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    1. As long as the concrete doesn't freeze. It was going to be in the 50's later that day and was not going to get below freezing the next couple of days. They add hot water and a compound (I forget the name at the moment) which helps it cure faster. In some case we cover it as the concrete produces its own heat as it cures.

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  15. So sorry to read about Mike. And what wonderful memories you have.
    Being a puppy person too, I often wonder what their dreams are like…always hoping they are happy dreams! Life is wonderful…and reflecting on “the way we love and love” is such a blessing!
    The camper steps look awesome…a professional could not have done better!

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    1. I think they are happy dreams, at least that is what I tell myself.

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  16. Those are some great looking bucks! So sorry to hear of your friends passing. Great job on those camper stairs Barb! The grandkids are sure growing up fast. That’s a pretty sweet ride Dylan got for his first car! Mine was a 54 Pontiac Chieftain. Cheers!

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    1. Isn't it crazy how quickly they grow up? It seems like just a few years ago that they visited us in Q and you met them!

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  17. A very mixed bag. I'm so sorry your friend travelled on. It's hard to know what to say, but his widow will appreciate your sympathy.
    How long will Hopalong survive, I wonder. Where there's a strong will, there's survival.

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    1. I got some good video of Hopalong this week so you can see how she gets around.

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  18. Gigi Hawaii. Hi, I’m glad you’re having fun with your family and friends. Sorry to read that Mike passed away, but good to know that you have happy memories of him. Yes, Mother Nature is wonderful to see.

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  19. Sorry to hear about Mike, sounds like he was a great friend.

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  20. Good morning I do enjoy your posts-so much going on. We used to have a long weekend of deer camp back at the woods house-I miss those times-lots of good foods and processing deer as well. we love venison we always butchered it up in different cuts-roasts etc. good eats.

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    1. You get it. The processing is part of the fun, adventure, camaraderie and memories. Not many people understand that.

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  21. This post was a mixed bag for sure, Jim. The passing of a good friend is always hard to read about and Mike sounds like he was a really good guy. It's nice that you and Keven helped at the fire house and community center to pour concrete despite the cold temps.

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    1. He was a great guy, very fun loving and generous. Going to Florida will not be the same without him.

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  22. Still no venison? Was that a toy strapped to your bow or just a mechanism that looks like a blurry toy? Steps look great! Sorry to hear about your friends passing. Our kids bought their first cars (used) from saving their 4-H livestock auction money for several years. Enjoy your Autumn. I think it’s going to be a short one over here.

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    1. Not for the lack of opportunity. Just waiting for the right one. No toys on the bow, but it would be funny if I did bring toys to play with and pass the time! The orange loop is where I hook my release to. The strap below is the wrist strap. The mechanical looking thing is the arrow rest.

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  23. There is nothing better than old friends and I am very sorry for your loss. We had an old friend over to bow hunt. He didn't get anything, but time together made for good memories. I am hunting today. The bucks are starting to show interest. Just not anywhere near my stand.

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    1. Make sure you read this coming week's post, there is some good deer footage!

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  24. So very sorry about your dear friend. You will be missing him for a long while.
    Those steps are amazing for the camper!
    Can't imagine pouring cement when it's in the 20s. Brrr!
    I hope the one-legged turkey survives. I had a badly limping partridge the past two winters I called Chester. I am hoping it is still doing okay this winter, too. :)

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    1. Stay tuned as Hopalong is a subject in next week's blog as well!

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  25. Your post reflects all the things life brings us--joy, grief, pleasure, work, friends, loss, winning, losing, and most importantly, perseverance in the face of it all. That turkey is certainly symbolic too!
    Hope you find the correct soffit color. What frustration. I will never understand why companies feel compelled to be constantly changing things that are just fine as they are.
    So sorry about Mike. That's hard, I know. It seems he lived his life to the fullest, so i hope his wife and his friends can find some solace in that. Hugs, Jim.

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    1. You nailed it with that first sentence. Perseverance is the key, this was not the easiest week in several ways. But we shall persevere and things will get better.

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  26. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.

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  27. Sorry for your loss. Sometimes I wonder...when we all get to the other side, will we know our friends and relatives???? I sure hope so!

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    1. I think so, what I really wonder is if someone is married and their spouse dies and they marry again, how does all that work when they meet up in heaven?

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  28. Sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I miss deer hunting it was my quite time to reminisce.

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    1. There is nothing quite like the experience of a Wisconsin deer camp!

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  29. Losing someone you car about isn't easy but it is part of life

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  30. Thank you for sharing your memories of Mike. He sounds like a wonderful friend and those are precious. Sometimes the death of a friend is harder than that of an extended family member. I think he would have loved this celebration of his life and your friendship.

    And I "wonder" a lot too! Those made me smile. Happy hunting!

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  31. I wonder why I always appear in your blog? I know, because you did a focus group with your readers and that is what they really want to read about. Smart! When we have more years behind us than in front of us, death becomes more of a reality. When I was in high school, I never dreamt about being this old, now occasionally I come across obituaries of people I went to high school with. Sad for sure and it's what you and all of us go through. I bet you never knew that I was so wise. Take care.

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    1. Yes, you do live rent free in my mind, thank you oh wise one!

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  32. ooooooh such a beautiful buck and a great-ish post about all the things!! loss is so difficult, but it is best to smile because it happened....not because it is over!! we gain so much from love and relationships, you are lucky to have had a friend you loved so much!! my first car was green and cost $ 300.00...i don't think you could buy a steering wheel for that today!! hehehe

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  33. When I read “… she seems to be getting along well, just a little slower than the rest. Which, I am afraid, will make her easy prey for a coyote.” I immediately thought, “Et tu Brute?” I’m only a couple years older than you, but I assure you we are all getting “slower than the rest”

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    1. When bear hunting, always hunt with someone slower than you!

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  34. Sorry to read about the passing of your friend. It sounds like you have so many great memories to carry you through. Please tell Barb her steps are beautiful. She is so talented (both of you truly are). I won't mention the hunting!!!! Keep the projects rolling. Keeps you young!

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