Friday, January 2, 2026

Christmas, New Years and a Birthday!

 It seems like forever ago that we had the windstorm that knocked out power and so many trees. While it may seem like a distant memory, the evidence still remains. I have about half of the trees cut up. I was doing a couple trees a day until a few days ago, then I got distracted and went onto other projects like doing some small jobs in the new garage. 

Christmas was low key with just Barb and I hanging out with the girls until the early afternoon. We still buy each other presents as it brings us joy to not only give, but to receive presents. What did I did I get for Christmas? Some were things we would have bought ourselves in the next couple months, but it is fun to unwrap them and see what Barb thought I needed. A couple pair of pants, some socks, sweatshirts, fishing lures and a couple of cellular trail cameras. Those things are the bomb! I used to balk at them thinking they were too expensive for the initial purchase as well as the monthly subscription cost. But having instant access to the pictures and not having to drive out and get the SD cards has its benefits. 

What did I get Barb? Some of you will laugh, some of you will shake your head, but Barb does not want for traditional things like clothing or jewelry. I got her a bunch of woodworking tools for her new shop, some socks, and wait for it... a new set of pots and pans! Before you start drafting your hate comments, hear me out. It is what she wanted, what she asked for. She has been drooling over this Gordon Ramsey Hex Clad cookware for months and who I am to deny her the pleasure of cooking me a great meal in new cookware?

That afternoon, Dan and Bonnie came over for a delicious prime rib dinner! We watched football and stuffed ourselves silly. 

A couple days later we ventured out of the house to our friend Greg's house. Greg is an incredible artist and surprised us with a beautiful painting for our house. We now have two Lester originals! Kevin and Cheryl live next door to Greg and were the 4th and 5th to our group. We had a great couple of hours sitting by the fire outside and enjoying each other's company. 

The next day was my birthday! Well, not really, we were two days early, but we were celebrating it that day as Barb was going to be gone on my actual birthday. More presents, more food, more quiet time with my bride. We stuffed ourselves with king crab legs to the point of uncomfortableness. So good!

Two days later was departure day for Barb. She was to fly out of Rapid City to Baltimore for a 5 day stay at our daughter Jessica's before those two jumped on another plane for a week-long stay in Puerto Rico. Unfortunately, Barb's flight out of Rapid was cancelled and she did not fly out until the following day. I could write an entire blog post on the hours we spent online and, on the phone, trying to rebook that flight. I will tell you one thing though; Delta has to be the most noncustomer friendly airlines we have ever dealt with. They are more interested in getting a few more dollars out of their customers than they are in accommodating their customer's needs.  But regardless, she finally got out to Jessica's and is having a good time. 

As we were driving to the airport, we talked about the last time we had flown. For me, we came up with January of 2017. For a guy who used to fly a couple times a month back in the day, it is interesting that I have not flown for almost 9 years. 

Another thought occurred to me as I dropped her off. That thought was how much airline travel has changed in our lifetime. Some of the young'ins out there would just find it unbelievable that we were able to fly without showing any form of ID whatsoever. In fact, back in the day, I used to fly using a variety of names. Let me explain, we had a travel department at work and they looked for the cheapest airfare to our store locations. The cheapest flights were often roundtrip tickets with a couple weeks between flights. They would book numerous roundtrip tickets each month under various names and if I needed to ticket to say, Chicago, they would open a drawer and hand me a ticket for the day I wanted to travel and another ticket for my return date. 

These tickets, more often than not, would have another coworker's name on it, but back in the mid-80's/early 90's, you were not required to show ID to fly, just present your ticket. I remember one time, I was sitting in the terminal waiting to board when over the PA the attendant announced, "Will Dan Ruetten please come to the podium". We have a Dan Ruetten who worked for us, and I immediately started looking around for him to see if he was on my same flight. Nope, no sign of Dan. The attendant called again, it was then that I realized that I was Dan! The ticket I had been given for this flight had Dan's name on it. I went to the desk, and they handed me my ticket saying I had left it in the restroom. 

Of course one would never get away with this nowadays. Here are a couple other oddities that younger travelers just would not understand. Back then you could smoke on flights. It was not until 1988 that they banned smoking on flight less than 2 hours. Also, back then anyone could go to the terminal, no security checkpoints, you just walked in and went pretty much wherever you wanted. 

Speaking of oddities. Have you ever received a package that looked like this?

Leave it to Farmer Bob, who also collects stamps, to send a package with some of his leftover stamps! I wonder what the post office thought when they sorted this package. Did they even count and add up the total postage? I'll tell you one thing, they did not invalidate the stamps, so I theoretically put something back into it and mail it back to Bob!

So, what did I do on my actual birthday? For the first time ever, I spent my birthday alone (Cue sad violin music). To be fair, I did get a pity invite to go out to supper from Dan and Bonnie. Another first is that I am spending almost two weeks alone in the house! I have talked about this before, but I still find it bizarre that while Barb cumulatively has spent an equivalent of almost a year by herself in our house. I have spent maybe one or two nights by myself in the house. Crazy to think about. 

New year's eve day found me working on a new project which will be revealed in a few weeks. That afternoon I hit the woods for one last sit in the deer stand. After getting out in the woods 75 of the last 85 days, this day is the last day of the season. Tomorrow marks the first day of a new year. As I sat there and reflected on the year, the highs, the lows, the laughter and the tears. It was not long ago the death of a friend or family member was a rarity. Now, it is happening all too frequently. I guess that is to be expected as we age, but it does not make it any easier. 

I look forward to 2026 like I do with each one of my hunts; full of optimism for what could be. What could be if we put in the effort. And we will be putting in the effort this year if all goes as planned, it will be one of our busiest in quite a while. 

I will leave you with another video and a picture. The video was taken earlier this week. The turkeys were having a reunion. I tried counting them, but it was impossible. I quit at 80 and there were still more coming! The picture? Would you believe I took it less than 5 minutes ago? I am sitting here writing the blog, look outside and this guy is bedded right outside the house!




As you can see, we are snowless again. The last week has been beautiful weather, seeing temps in the 50's, even near 60! I hope everyone had a good Christmas, a Happy New Year and hopes for a great 2026!

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  1. And it was before I started flying much, but people used to dress up to fly. But I guess that they used to dress up for a lot more than they do these days. Sounds like good holidays at your house. Now the challenge is not to get into too much trouble while Barb is away.

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    1. The only trouble I am likely to get into is drying her jeans when I do the laundry. Believe me, I will not make that mistake again! I have never left the house in sweatpants; it is a minimum of jeans for me if I am going out in public.

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  2. Your friend is a very talented artist. I love to fly but absolutely hate the airport experience. Wow…I think you could supply you county with Christmas turkeys!
    Happy New Year and all the best in 2026 to you and Barb!

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    1. He really is. He has more artistic talent in his right pinky than I do in my entire body!

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  3. As a teen, my friends and I would sometimes drive out to Dulles airport--it was new back then!--and just people-watch. It was my first time to see people in turban and such, and ro hear foreign languages spoken. I also remember people going to airports for dinner, as some airports had good restaurants. I haven't flown since 2022, I think? When I went to LA and Miami on the same trip to see family.
    So sad you were alone on your birthday! But I have a feeling you are enjoying the time by yourself. I know I do when Larry is away. Just be careful, keep your phone with you just in case, and try not to get into too much mischief!

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    1. I totally forgot about going out to eat at airports. We never did it, but I do remember other people doing it.
      Funny you should say that about keeping my phone close to me. As you know, I am doing things out in the woods a lot by myself. I sometime find myself getting the phone out of the side by side right before I do something "sketchy" just in case.

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  4. Forgot to say, happy birthday and happy new year!

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  5. Wow. I cannot believe how much older you are than I am. Maybe that's why I have always looked up to you as my senior. That was one of my resolutions this year. To be positive and blow sunshine up everyone's butt. Have I told you lately that you don't look a day over 75. You really don't. I hope that you can live for so long without Barb. Please post a picture of the house the day before she gets home. It will be interesting to see if a human can survive for two weeks living on water and fur balls from under the couch.

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    1. How is that resolution any different than any other year? Why don't you make a resolution that actually will have a positive impact on your life like eating healthier and drinking less? That Chinese food you are eating is full of sodium and should be cut out completely!

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  6. Happy Birthday Jim. Wow that is a lot of turkeys, you will never starve with your pantry just walking by all the time.

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    1. They do not taste nearly as good as one would think, but in the right situation, you are darn right I would eat one!

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  7. PS I also received the hexclad fry pans and the griddle. They are awesome.

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    1. You don't know how many times Barb has said, "I love these pans" in the short time that she has had them!

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  8. Seems like a nice holiday, and now you will have another type of holiday on your own. By holiday there, I don't mean a lucky break but just a different sort of time.

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    1. I do not know if I would call it a holiday, it is a lot of work doing double duty!

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  9. Good morning Jim…happy birthday and Happy New Year! You and Barb are always so busy so it’s hard to try and figure out how 2026 can be even busier! You are so right about this aging thing. Although much better than the alternative, there seem to more tears of sadness but, the joyful times seem to be more frequent! Life is good!

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    1. Life is good, too many people seem to forget that and focus on the negative making themselves and those around them miserable.

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  10. Happy Birthday! 🥳🎂
    Wow! It looks like a turkey ranch out there.
    May

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  11. Happy Belated Birthday! Sorry you had to spend it alone, but I'm sure Barb made sure you were well taken care of....
    Speaking of flying "in the old days", we have many of those same memories. The smoking sections on American flights was particularly vexing for us. Once, when we boarded with non smoking tickets and that section was already full, the stewardess (yes, that's what we called them then) just moved the "non-smoking section" sign one row back and - voila! We had seats in the new section. Problem was, everyone in the plane directly in front of us was smoking and we rode in a haze of grey. ugh. The next time we flew to Europe we drove up to Toronto to fly out on AirCanada because they were one of the first non-smoking airlines. You live and learn!
    Have a happy, healthy and grateful New Year.....

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    1. I grew up with that gray haze, in our house and our cars. That and the constant coughing all night long is why I was never a smoker.

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  12. slice the turkey breast, batter it, and Chicken Fry! Then ask Barb to make some nice spicy cream gravy and cover liberally! Also on the mashed taters! In your case pair the meal with a glass of Wild Turkey! Happy New Year!

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    1. That all sounds very good! I do like me a good chicken fried steak.

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  13. Happy New Year!! I hate to say it but all 3 major US airlines are customer unfriendly these days, you don't want to hear about how horrible American Airlines was on a couple of flights, glad Barb finally made it to your daughter's! Hoping the new year brings both of you good health and new adventures!

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    1. That is very discouraging. Maybe it was because I was flying corporately, but I remember them bending over backwards to make sure you were happy.

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  14. Belated Birthday, Christmas and New Years wishes.
    It is funny how animals seem to know when Hunting Season is over.
    I remember flying before and after 9-11 and the differences were very noticeable.
    Stay Safe and Enjoy your next adventure.

    It's about time.

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    1. Do you think the deer read the hunting regs and have meetings to see who is going to taunt me once the season is over? I would tend to agree with you!

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  15. Glad to see Barb is having a fun little vacay! You better not touch those new pans! Happy Birthday and New Year!!

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    1. Oh, oh, I already used them! But I know better than to use metal utensils with them, plastic or wood only!

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  16. Sounds like a nice Christmas, with great presents for you and Barb.
    I did not know you had a daughter in Baltimore, I am just north.
    I like flying but hate going through the airports. It is sad customer service is so bad now, people must just hate their jobs. Safe travels for Barb! Take care, enjoy your day and happy weekend.

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    1. Jess is north of Baltimore as well, in Greencastle, PA

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    2. Sorry my post went through as anonymous. I wasn't signed into blogger.
      Now, I remember you and Barb visiting Greencastle.
      Happy New Year to you and Barb!

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    3. They left out of BWI on Saturday for warmer weather. They did not make it to their original destination, you will have to wait and see where they landed!

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  17. My daughter's best friend bought her a new set of pots and pans for Christmas too! She loves them. She wanted them and kept talking about them. lol

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    1. To each their own, I love that people get excited about new cookware.

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  18. You won’t be too lonely over the next while with all that activity outside! Beautiful. Belated birthday wishes and Happy New Year, to you both.

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    1. I was outside most of the day today, you are right, I did not have time to be lonely!

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  19. I understand the Hex Clad pots and pans are wonderful! I do like my cast iron the best! Good that Barb gets to go someplace warm for a vacation while you hold down the fort! Happy Birthday!!

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    1. Cast iron is the way to go, a little more work, but worth it. These hex clad are apparently a cast iron blend.

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  20. My 50th school reunion was just a couple years ago...and although I was in Sacramento during that time I did not go. But online I saw just how many had passed away already...noted that an ex-girl friend was not on the list, but should have been I sent the info in and she was added. Funny thing, about 1/3 of those on the list would not have made it to the 10th reunion! Back then, we all thought we were invincible! Now we know when a cold front is moving in by how much our joints hurt...

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    1. I would have my 50th in 2031. I am sure the same thing would be try. I have yet to attend any of them, nor do I intend to. Anyone I want to see from high school, I already do.

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  21. No point in giving gifts you don't need or want, so saucepans are good, I like the look of them - looked them up.
    I'm sure Barb his having a wonderful time away on a holiday and you having lone time which is also nice (I like it) then you will both be ever so pleased to see each other at the end of it.
    Happy Birthday and a Happy New Year and may it be a healthy good one.

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    1. We will definitely be happy to see each other when she returns. The real question is, will she be happier to see me or the dogs?!?!?

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  22. You have the best window views EVER!!! Happy Birthday!!!!!

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  23. I don't know where to begin! First, Happy Birthday, probably belated now. And your Christmas sounded fantastic. I am on Barb's side -- sometimes you really want practical things. People laughed when Rick gave me a vacuum cleaner one year, but I wanted it and needed it and I sure didn't want to buy it myself! I hear you on Delta. They hub out of Detroit and that tends to be where you get the most flights. (One of the few that come to Lansing.) I remember having real food and real silverware on flights in the 1970s -- in regular old cabin class, not first! (That's a dream to come!). It was an experience. Now it's grueling. Hope you have a fun and productive time while Barb and your daughter are living it up in the warmth of Puerto Rico!

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    1. We flew out of Minneapolis when I was working which was also a hub. Never had too much trouble back then, but it is definitely a different time!

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  24. I remember those days of being excited to fly. Sadly those days have flown off and left me behind.

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    1. I hope to get through the rest of my life without flying again. Unless it was an Alaskan moose hunt, I would gladly fly for that!

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  25. Happy birthday, happy new year...it sounds like there's been a lot of excitement. And you don't have snow... My husband and I exchange gifts for the same reason. WE like tog I've each other things and get things from the other. I get the pots and pans, if it's what she wanted. I wanted a teapot, not any teapot but an expensive stainless steel one from Germany that I now have and am loving it. To each their own as they say. I must say I am jealous Barb and your daughter are going someplace warm. Please send of that warmer snowless weather east. Enjoy your quiet (well it sounds better than alone) time.

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    1. That is good to hear. We also use Christmas to buy things we want, but just cannot justify buying; like that teapot. Great way to do it!

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  26. We too still exchange Christmas gifts. To Mike and me it just wouldn't be Christmas morning without some little gift to open. Your friend is a talented artist! When I traveled a lot for work--2 to 3 times a month, I always flew Delta. I had status with them as a result so probably was treated better. Now I fly whatever airline is cheaper although I avoid American like the plague--they left a whole plane load of passengers sitting in the Houston airport for eight hours. One of the passengers was trying to get to Arkansas--her father had just died and I was appalled at the lack of sympathy from the American desk agents. I will have to look into that brand of pots and pans! The ones we use here in AZ could use replacing! Great blog as usual!

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    1. Same, it just would not be the same without opening a gift. Some of our gifts even everyday items like toothpaste, or a toothbrush, chapstick, but it is still fun to gift them. I already have another airline tale to tell from Barb's travels today, but that will wait a few more days.

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  27. Happy Belated Birthday and what a beautiful painting. The last time I was on a plane was in 2018 and I don't miss it to tell you the truth. Our traveling has been cut back a lot due to age related stuff but I won't go there, and smiling here! I always used to get sick because of those things anyhow, either in the middle of a vacation or after, that I don't miss either. Still, I can see there will be a plane ride in our future somewhere, sometime. We have too many relatives living overseas for me to say never say never. I would like a set of those hex clad pots, and we need some new ones so maybe. Another great read here and all that remains is for me to wish you and Barb and all the family a Very Happy and Healthy New Year!

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    1. Never say never, what a true statement. I would like to say I will never fly again, but there are a few exceptions that would get me on a flight. A fishing trip, a hunting trip, a funeral, a wedding, a vacation that we really want to go on. We have none of those plans, but you just never know!

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  28. Good to hear you both had a great Christmas. I am so jealous of Barb's pans!! I mentioned how lucky she was to John. He asked me if they make the food taste any better than it does now. Anything to avoid my getting these. Haha! Our Delta pilot son would agree with you! He is not a Delta fan even though they do pay him A LOT of money. Happy Birthday! Enjoy your time alone. I'm sure you can find lots to keep you busy. Wishing you four a Happy, Healthy New Year!!

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    1. Tell John that YES! it does make the food taste a lot better! Maybe not in the literal sense, but when a meal is prepared with love rather than just for sustenance, it does taste better.

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  29. I forgot to mention that I was glad to hear Dakota is feels better with her injections. Yes, she is worth it:)))

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    1. She has a little pep in her step for a couple of weeks after getting the injection. I am going to try and take a video of her today to show you some of her happiest moments during the day.

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  30. Happy belated Birthday to you, and the painting is beautiful! I am happy to hear that Dakota is doing better!

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    1. Dakota seems a lot happier than she does when she is in pain, that is for sure!

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  31. What a wonderful painting your friend did, and he has such a talent. Happy Birthday to you. Having alone time is good for the body and mind once in a while. It allows those stirring thoughts to be still for a time, and that's a good thing. The buck shot is nice. The crab sounds delicious. My brother-in-laws used to be fishermen in Alaska, and would bring us some King Crab from time to time....very tasty. I hope Barb has safe travels back home. I have a Jessica too (love the name). I hope the new year brings good things in the days and weeks ahead.

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    1. King crab is my favorite seafood, so we try to have it for my birthday every year. Over the years we have seen it as cheap as $8/pound and as high as $40 something/pound. When we went to Alaska for the first time, we thought we were going to gorge ourselves in king crab. It has to be super cheap there, right? Nope, even more expensive than it is here in the lower 48. Go figure.

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  32. First of all....Happy Belated Birthday to you!! Hey...I think it's important to get your wife something that she really wants and if pots and pans was on the top of her list, then I am happy (and I know she is) that you made this incredible purchase. Sounds like you guys had a very nice Christmas. And the art...how neat and thoughtful this gift was. Game cameras....these things are neat. I only wish we had had one at the farm when someone decided to cut the gate and steal our ATV a few years ago. I cn assure you that we have them now! lol. Have a good week Jim

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    1. That is frustrating. Why do people have to do that?!? These cellular cameras are a game changer for not only hunting, but also for keeping an eye on your property.

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  33. happy birthday jim!! my husband and i stopped exchanging gifts a long time ago. we found at some point it became to difficult to buy for each other. the painting is beautiful. lately, our travel has been limited to places we can drive to, familiar places. day trips and just a few night away...i do love home!! i'm so happy you have enjoyed your holidays and great news that dakota is continuing to improve!!

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    1. We have had the same issue at times, what do you get the person who just buys whatever she wants when she wants it? There is always something, but some years are a little more stressful than others.

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  34. Happy birthday and Happy New Year!
    You need not apoligize for what you gift. That's between the two of you.
    My hubby can tell these stories about airlines. He worked for them most of his career. He retired in 2005.

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    1. I bet he could tell some stories! Barb's birthday is coming up in March and I need to think about what she wants/needs all over again!

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  35. Happy Birthday, New Year, and Christmas too. All of that at once!
    We do have snow and rain and ice happening in our area, but that is the fun of winter.

    Not to be a drag, but I did miss getting a fun little gift for hubby this year. It was usually something we both wanted or I'd say it was from the dog. Lots of laughter over that.

    I've already had a rather surprising and busy start to the New Year.

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    1. You blog does make me miss Wisconsin. If we moved back there, it would be somewhere up near the Hayward area.

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  36. What a wonderful way to share your holidays. I loved reading about the simple joys,family gatherings, thoughtful gifts, and those small, everyday adventures like watching the wildlife.

    I’ve just shared a new post myself, and I’d be so glad if you stopped by to read it when you have a quiet moment.

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  37. Happy Belated Birthday! Flying in the part I hate most about travelling. In our last trip we experienced delays and almost missed connections, thankfully no cancellations. Puerto Rico is amazing, hope they have a great trip.

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