Sunday, February 23, 2025

Brrr!

Our cold and shivering bodies gathered around the fire trying to absorb its warmth. We did not know if we were going to make it through the night, but by God we were going to try. I looked around our group, we were too cold to talk, too cold to move, we just sat and stared into the flames silently wondering if this was our last night on earth. How could it be this cold? We came down to Florida to escape the cold, glancing at the thermometer on the window, I see the dial was dipping down to the 40°, this was definitely life threatening.

I am sure most of you reading this are wondering if we all survived. I am happy to report we did. 

What a crazy week across the country. Back home in South Dakota, we saw a low of -25 below (is using the - sign and the word "below" a double negative?) The high that day was -4. Two days later the high was 48. Talk about a roller coaster. At the farm in North Dakota, they saw a low of -33, now that is cold! But that does not stop them from working, life carries on at the farm regardless of the weather. Here are a couple of screenshots I took when the temperature when I thought to do it. 

Speaking of The Farm, we talked to Farmer Bob this week in Kenya. He is getting along well. He and the priest are pretty much the only two in the area (at least in his circle) that speak English. Even the masses are in Swahili. Bob has learned a few words and phrases, so far, his favorite is "Hakuna matata" which means "No worries".

Before the bottom fell out of the thermometer (by Florida standards) we were able to get out for a few adventures. Dan and I fished Lochloosa Lake, a beautiful day on the lake, but our worst day fishing so far. I am happy to report, we saw no spiders or snakes, but the wasps were out there!

Like Noonan, the cormorants were waiting in the trees for us to go under them so they would practice their aim. 

While we were doing that, Jeannie and Barb were having a sushi party for the women in the neighborhood. Many of them had never made sushi before and came prepared with sake, fans and geisha hair pins. 



Not wanting to get home too soon (The women were still making sushi), Dan and I stopped at a bar along the way home. Upon entering the bar, it was like we stepped back in time. A blue smokey haze hovered over the entire place. As we took our bar stools, no less than 3 of the 6 patrons were smoking. What the?!?! We ordered our beer, and I googled, "Is smoking legal in Florida bars?". I was shocked to read that yes; it is under specific condition. Apparently (I am going from memory) in 2017, 5 states changed their laws to allow smoking in bars, Florida being one of them. 

While I am not a smoker, I don't disagree with this law, businesses should be able to cater to who they want and survive if there is a market for it.  But I will never go there again. After a quick beer, it was still too early to risk going home, so we stopped by the Clubhouse in their subdivision and met some of the other "sushi husbands" for a few games of pool. 

The next day Barb and I headed to Yalaha, an hour and a half SE to meet up with blogger friends Marlene and Benno. Barb and I have wanted to meet these two for several years. Married almost 60 years, they have lived in a sailboat, a diesel boat, an RV and are in the process of rebuilding another boat. Such and interesting and inspirational couple!

We met them at Yalaha Bakery, an authentic German restaurant. Barb and I had a giant pretzel and a couple of hefeweizens while we sat outside and visited. Before we knew it, two hours had past, and it was time to head home. We all went back inside to get a dessert to go. They have an incredible selection for sweets!
We even got to meet Elsa and Reggie!
  
Oh, I forgot to tell you about last Sunday when we went over to Dan and Jeannie's for our 3rd annual crab claw/oyster feed. Here is Barb and Dan shucking the oysters. They were then flavored with various toppings; garlic/parm, hot sauce, truffle oil.... Delicious!
The four-legged girls just hung out and watched us. Dakota and Sally in the sunroom, Zoey was quite board with everything. 

Friday, we went back out to the World Equestrian Center for a dual-purpose visit. First up was the boat show which was taking place in one of the buildings. While we are in the market for a fishing boat, they did not have any boats that we were interested in. The fishing boats in Florida and so different than the fishing boats we use up north. Talk about some crazy boats though, the most expensive one we saw was over $700,000! 

Then we walked a short distance to watch a jumping event. Hard to beat this venue with the arena in the foreground and the hotel in the background. 

Finally, Saturday was again our Mike and Liz day, no distilleries this week, instead we went over to their house for a smoked brisket feast! Mike had put the brisket in the day before and smoked it overnight. We were joined by Rachel (Mike and Liz's daughter) and John and Karen (Mike's brother). 
John and Karen (and Zoey and Tux)
We had not seen John and Karen since 2019, so it was really nice to catch up with them. They own a couple of shrimping boats and brought a bucket of shrimp to go along the meal. It was still cold (like in the 50's), so Mike started a fire in their outdoor fireplace to keep us warm. 
The brisket was to die for! So tender and juicy. John and Karen also brought a box of Girl Scout Cookies. When I say a box, I mean like a case. Earlier that day they had stopped by Walmart where their granddaughter was selling them. They bought 167 boxes, yup everything she had, at $6.00 per box! Do you think their granddaughter will ever forget that sale?
What a great night. Good food and good friends are hard to beat. We went home with a bag of brisket, a bag of shrimp and 8 boxes of Girl Scout cookies! 

The week did end on a sad note however, when we got a call from back home informing us that our friend Janet (Kevin and Cheryl's neighbor) had passed away. You may remember her from the hay ride we had to Greg and Janet's house late last year. I will never understand why God takes the good ones first, you would be hard-pressed to find a kinder person than Jan. Our hearts go out to Greg and his family. 

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  1. Regardless of the cool weather it looks like you guys are making the best of it. Condolences on the passing of your friend. Cheers!

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    1. You know us, we are not going to let a little cold weather slow us down!

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  2. So sad about your friend dying. Yes, it was an awful weather week across the country except in Arizona! Our family/friends in Montana were inundated with snow and really frigid temps. You guys are having a great time--a sushi party--that's a new one for me!

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    1. We got some snow back home as well. 6" I think. Forrest was finally able to burn a couple of slash piles we have been wanting to burn for a couple of years now.

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  3. When I was a kid we visited Florida several summers (my folks later retired there from Minnesota). I do remember how when it was even 40 degrees it felt so much colder. Looks like you managed to have a great time, regardless. Except for the smoky bar. So sorry about the neighbor.

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    1. You can certainly tell the locals from the snowbirds when the weather gets colder. The locals start putting sweaters on at 50!

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  4. Hey Barb ... what's with all the red solo cups??? Looks like you girls were having a party!! I admit, I love sushi! Seems it's a little bit cold everywhere this year. I think that's why I don't live in South Dakota! I will pass on the oysters, but not on the fur kids. Zoey does look pretty bored with it all! lol

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    1. You know exactly what was going on with all those solo cups! They went through two bottles of booze and had one heck of a good time!

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  5. Good to see you didn't suffer frost bite in your fingers from the severe weather and were still able to type a post! With 80 degree temps in nearby Tucson I'd welcome a bit of that cold to hold on to Winter a little longer. Looks like your having a wonderful time with lots of friends. It's always a treat to catch up in person with fellow bloggers :-) Zoe cracks me up enjoying her stuffed furniture retreat.

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    1. Marlene and Benno made our week! We were hoping to meet up with them last winter, but they went to Arizona. This year it finally worked out!

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  6. The warmth of friends must take some of the chill off. With much of the country in the deep freeze, we've had a heat wave reaching 80F on the coast.
    I can go to the Point Loma Seafoods and buy all the fish I could ever eat for the cost of a fishing boat.
    Who's gonna eat all those Girl Scout cookies?

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    1. Ha! We were just talking about eating those cookies. We are going to give it the old college try, but I might have to buy some new clothing!

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  7. Really sorry to hear about your friend, Jim. And what is up with this weather? Luckily, we had our winter gear with us. We had to cancel a jam session, as guitars and parkas don’t mix.

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    1. We too have a couple of sweatshirts with us from our time in Pennsylvania. That is now all tucked away again and the flip flops are back out!

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  8. It definitely sounds like you guys are having fun inspite of the cooler weather. If it was really warm and humid I think it would be worse. lol Sorry about your neighbour. It is hard to lose the "good ones". Looks like you are having great food. I love crab legs!

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    1. Humidity is the worst! I would rather deal with subfreezing temperatures than humidity any day of the week!

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  9. Wow, I cannot believe how busy you are. I want to take a nap after reading this, not from boredom, but from the never ending activities. Unlike me, I like lazy days like today. I may not even put on pants today. Good times.

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    1. No need to take photographic proof of your pants-less day. Nobody wants to see that!

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  10. Sushi party sounds fun. Wasps would be a big no for me. Yuck! Even with the cold sounds like lots of fun going on. Luckily that cold is missing us on the west coast. Sorry to hear of your friends passing. Different boats on each coast are interesting..

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    1. You would have really liked the sushi party. I really liked the benefits of it! We had sushi for two days in a row!

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  11. Hello,
    Our weather has been very cold so 40 degrees would feel like a heat wave.
    Love all the doggie photos and the horse jumping event. That is a huge cookie sale, do they freeze most of them? Or give them away. I would like the beef but pass on the oysters and sushi. So sorry for the loss of your friend! Take care, have a wonderful week!

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    1. I think they are on a mission to give them all away. I asked for one sleeve of the shortbread cookies and he said I had to take the entire box. They only have 160 more boxes to give away!

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  12. Sorry to hear about Jan... As for cold, might cool down at night, but the afternoons are more than tolerable! Of course, y'all will be gone before April when the daytime temps are a balmy 95+ degrees, 85% humidity, with the sweat pouring off your forehead and soaking your ball cap! LOL

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    1. Jan has had a struggle the past several years, it is very sad to see her pass after such a courage battle.

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  13. Those chilly evenings with the humidity in the southeast are no fun! I love the lake photos with the lily pads. I miss seeing them in person sometimes. And you know my mouth was watering at the mention of oysters…I love them raw, baked, fried, and stewed in soup. It’s always fun to see friends and I love snoozing Zoey…probabally the smartest one in your group! 😉

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    1. The only thing missing (and I was looking for them) from the lily pad pictures was the flowers. There were plenty of buds, but none of them bloomed yet.

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  14. You guys had a busy week and we appreciate taking time out to meet up. It was great getting to know you! Sorry about the passing of your friend back home. Hope you will enjoy the rest of your time down here.

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    1. Thank you for taking the time to drive up and meet us! You two are incredible!

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  15. My goodness, y'all are certainly enjoying some good food! And yes, the temps in the south have been really, really cold by our standards! But YIKES on those South Dakota temps! Looks like lots of fun times and adventures. So neat that y'all can connect with other bloggers! I am sorry to hear about Janet. I know that is certainly tough to understand.

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    1. It was so nice to meet up with Marlene and Benno! Blogger people are some of the nicest people I have ever met.

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  16. Wow that is a really nice outdoor fireplace! Glad you all survived the 40 F degree weather:)

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    1. It was touch and go, but we survived! Nothing like you had up there though!

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  17. --25 below. Now I will be thinking all day if that is a double negative or not. :(

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    1. If it is a double negative, does that make it a positive? Kind of like unthawing some from the freezer?

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  18. -33 is nuts. I love the dog pictures, they know how to take it easy.

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    1. I think after -20, it is all about the same. It will freeze your hands in minutes of being exposed.

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  19. There is no way on earth I could keep up with you and your life - but I enjoy reading about it. I am sorry about the death of your friend. The cold weather has been here in Georgia too. It's been an odd winter. I guess you guys love fish - me not so much. Love the dogs. Stay warm.

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    1. It was incredible to see that cold front on the US map, this one went way south into Texas as well as Florida. Crazy!

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  20. Sorry for the loss of your neighbor and friend. The temps back home are wild! According to the AI overview on my phone, it is not a double negative to use the minus sign to denote that the temp is below zero and also to say "below zero." You've committed no grammar crime! I hope you stay warm and keep having fun with your FL friends :).

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    1. Me thinks I should sent my blogs to you for proofreading from now on!

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  21. Wow you do such fun things, we had a sushi party many years ago and an egg roll party too My adventures now a days is reading about your adventures here on your blog-smiles--thanks for sharing I love reading about it.
    It has been soooo cold here in Missouri at Lake in the Ozarks-negative temps, snow, ice wind--a warm up began today and all this coming week-hope to get warmed up
    Happy new week and to your next adventure
    Kathy

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    1. I have been behind on my blog reading, I will have to go back and see what you have been up to. Hibernating and keeping the fire stoked would be my two highest priorities if I were there!

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  22. Sad regarding your neighbour. May she RIP.
    Gosh that temperature is cold, I would probably die, glad you all didn't.
    Shushi sounds good, now my mouth is watering.
    Keep enjoying yourselves and be safe.

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    1. It would be interesting to see you experience weather like that, you would not die, but it would not be pleasant!

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  23. You seem to have a remarkable social life with lots of activities wherever you go.

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    1. Our years of traveling has blessed us with friends across the country!

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  24. My guess is the boats have to be big AND fast in Florida to get home safely with all the bales you pick up !

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  25. Living in one of those non-smoking in public venue states, I am amazed at how sensitive I have become to cigarette smoke. Just this past Sunday while in church, a lady passed by up the aisle before church started and it smelled like the church was on fire for ten minutes after she went by.

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    1. Me too. We were in that bar for maybe 20 minutes and I left there with a blistering headache.

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  26. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.
    I sure hope you've warmed up. We're in a brief warm up, and I am ready.
    To answer your question, no deer sheds this year. I was spoiled last year with a huge one. He dropped it right in front of me, out the kitchen window!

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    1. I remember that post! Do you know how rare that is? Most people go their entire life and never see that.

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  27. No better love than the love of grandparents. The briskets got my mouth watering. Sorry to hear about your friend.

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    1. We have been eating shrimp, brisket and cookies for two days straight now!

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  28. You sure have had some cold days. The sushi gathering looks fun. Not a sushi fan, but my family loves it. However, that German bakery would draw me in in an instance. The giant pretzel sounds delicious. The jumping event looks fun. l love horses!

    Have a good rest of February.

    ~Sheri

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    1. The restaurant had a lot of other German food that I could not pronounce as well. I went safe with the pretzel!

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  29. It seems such a sad cheat to have cold weather in Florida, of all places. But I'm so glad you have been able to enjoy good times and fun with friends.

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    1. Luckily we are down here for several weeks, unlike those who just come for a week.

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  30. So very sorry for the loss of your neighbor...my condolences. Retirement is truly good to you...I am amazed with all of the activities you all seem to get done in a week's time. Have fun...this is what retirement is all about.

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    1. Agreed, we have to stay active while we can. Soon enough, we won't be able to do many of these things.

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  31. it has been so cold in florida. we have gone a few times at christmas and froze our butts off. still you have a change of scenery and are having fun. it was very nice of you to "stop for a beer" so barb could finish her sushi....hehehehe

    bard is adorable, always smiling, you too. i think you are really enjoying life!! and you know what billy joel said, "only the good dye young"!! i hope you don't freeze!!

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    1. Next time we'll pick a better spot to stop for a beer. Who knew we'd pick one of the few smoking bars in the state!

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  32. What a week! I had to smile at the “life-threatening” Florida cold—quite a contrast to -33 in North Dakota! The sushi party sounds like a blast, and that brisket feast—delicious! So sorry to hear about Janet’s passing. Wishing comfort to her family.

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    1. We survived the cold snap and now things are back into the upper 70's. No feasts this week, which is probably good, we are still recovering from last week!

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  33. The sushi party looks like fun, even thought I don't like it! Meeting up with Marlene and Benno how fun! I read their blog, and they seem like such great people! Love the outdoor fireplace! :)

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    1. You would like them! You should try to meet them if they ever get out west again.

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  34. I am so very sorry about the loss of your friend. My deepest condolences to her family, and to all of you who will miss her. We heard about those temperatures your way. I am not moaning about ours any more. Our temperatures are getting higher now - upper 60s yesterday. That get together with your friends looked great, and so did Barb’s sushi party. Those sweet furry members of your families too. 100% adorable. Let the adventures continue, I sure do appreciate you taking us along.

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    1. Hopefully that was our last moaning about weather for a while as well. We hit 80 yesterday!

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  35. My condolences on the passing of a friend, it is the last day of summer here and it is going to be a hot one, that sushi party looked like happy people

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    1. Sadly, our summer is a long ways away, but spring is right around the corner!

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  36. At 40 degrees you should have been sunbathing! Your SD neighbors would think it was downright balmy. It has been an interesting winter all over. Our biggest problem is the wind. Pickleball and biking aren't fun in the wind. Glad you're enjoying your FL stay with friends and great seafood. Always love seeing the puppies:) Sorry to hear of the passing of your neighbor.

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