Friday, May 9, 2025

Ol' Rem

 If you are lucky, you will have a once in a lifetime dog. One that is your best friend, loyal, a protector of the family and a good hunter. Remy is all those things to Chris and Holly.  Over the past 13 years, Remy has seen all for of Chris and Holly's children born and has dutifully taken on the responsibility of protecting each of them. You do not want to be a stranger driving into their place. Remy's size, of over 100lbs is matched by his bark, but to my knowledge has never bitten anyone, and if he did, they probably deserved it. If I were to be honest there was more than one time that I was hesitant to walk into their house having to walk by Rem. The FedEx man has it figured out, tossing out a treat upon his arrival. The UPS man, not so much. There must be some history there as Remy just does not like that big brown truck driving up. The school bus is another story altogether, over the years, he has greeted one, two, now three kids getting off the bus every day.

But Rem's main role in life is not that of protector, he is a hunter. That is his passion in life and is relentless in his pursuit of pheasant and fowl. Which unfortunately has included their chickens a time or two. No, Remy is not the perfect dog, you certainly do not want to leave a bag of garbage within his reach, but what he lacks in manners, he makes up in in his love of life. 

Why all the Remy talk? The old guy is getting near the end of his life here on earth. Most of his days are spent laying on the stoop of the garage protecting his pack inside. Nowadays he will just open one eye and give me a look as I step over him, but I suspect if I was a stranger, it would be a different story. With fading eyesight, most of his recognition comes through smell. Having been run over twice in his life, just the act of getting up is a struggle, but he manages to get up a couple times a day and you will see him walking the perimeter of the farmyard. What took 10 minutes now takes him over 30. While you can see he is in some pain, you can also still see his love of life and his will to live as he makes his rounds. 


It is hard seeing good dogs get old, any dog for that matter. He is a big part of the family, not only to Chris and Holly, but when he goes, it will be the first taste of death that will impact the three oldest children and that in itself is heartbreaking. So, it was with a heavy heart I patted Remy on the head Tuesday night knowing that it was more than likely the last time I would ever see him, but even without him physically there, I know his spirit will still be sitting on the porch stoop, walking the perimeter of the yard, greeting the school bus, terrorizing the big bad brown truck that pulls into the yard, and even though Chris will not see him, he will be sitting right next to Chris when he is out in the duck blind each fall. 

As you may have theorized from that paragraph, I have left the farm and am now back home. What you ask? How could I be home so quickly? This spring planting season was one for the books. Our earliest start on April 16th, favorable condition, minimal breakdowns, no rain (both a blessing and a curse) resulted in our earliest ending day of May 8th. Three weeks and 1 day, over 5500 acres planted.

Other years this process has taken over 5 weeks so to get everything in the ground so quickly will have its benefits. If they get rain. But that holds true no matter when they get the seed in the ground, but getting it in sooner means should rain come in the next few weeks, the seeds will take full advantage of it. It also means a longer growing season or an earlier harvest depending on the crop.

But before that last seed went into the ground, and before that last pat on Remy's head there was still work to be done. Two more evenings on the machine shed roof buttoned up that project.

And there was seed to get fertilizer to get out to the field. While one the way out to one field I saw the odometer in the truck I was driving turn over to 999,000, 0ne thousand more miles and it will be all 0's again!

Speaking of old trucks, they get a wide variety coming in from local farms to get seed. I am not sure of the year of this one, but it is a classic!

All in all it was a successful season. One broken window on the truck and a few broken hoses, if those are the worst of it, we'll take is as a win. After three weeks I was anxious to get home, but it is one of those places that you already miss the next day. Little Tessa learned to crawl while I was there, and she got her first tractor ride!

The farm is one of those places you look forward to going to, cannot wait to leave and miss the next day. The happy hours after a hard days work, sneaking away and watching a few minutes of golf with DeAnne in the house, the camaraderie with the boys, and a big thank you to Holly for keeping me fed and inviting me down for suppers. I did not get away without injury though, not sure how it happened, but I funked up my left thumb. I do not remember a specific incident, but it has lost all gripping strength and is super painful should I try grip something or bump it. Kind of like a severe sprain, but I didn't sprain it. Three days later, it is still tender but slowly getting better. But I have the next few months for it to heal before I am called to duty to get the crops off the fields. I am already looking forward to it!

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  1. Hello,
    It is very hard to let go of a family pet, hubby and I have had 6 dogs who were considered family. In the end we just do not want them to live in pain. We have lots of wonderful memories of all of them. Now we have Miney, each dog had their own personalities. I love the Remy photos and post and Little Tessa is adorable. Take care and have a great weekend.

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    1. We have had dogs all of our married life and I think we will have them until our last day. They bring so much joy to our lives.

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  2. Oh such a good testament to a faithful farm dog with so many big jobs. May he run free again near the Rainbow Bridge. Hard for the little ones and the big ones too, my sympathy to you all.
    Hope your thumb heals up okay. Enjoy your time at home. I bet you have lots of projects there!

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    1. So many projects, so little time! I do have a large list. Luckily, we do not have a lot on our schedule in the next month, so we should be able to put a real dent into them.

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  3. Such a heartfelt post, Renny sounds like a great protector for his pack.
    Welcome home!

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    1. Rem watched over the house day and night and is a relentless pursuer of game.

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  4. Job well done and nice tribute to Remy. Oddly, I also have an injury to my hand that I cannot account for. Suddenly, it's just there.

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    1. hmm,,,, maybe there is some strange thumb virus going around?

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  5. Definitely hard to lose a pet who has been with you for a long time. We still miss Freya. I must admit though, travelling is much easier not having to worry about a dog. Instead, we just give our love to Jason and Kristi's year old golden, Olaf. He is a goof and such a wonderful pet for Amelia. We see them quite a bit and he certainly knows his way around our house and where the treats are kept.

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    1. Olaf looks like an awesome dog. I would love to have another golden, but Barb is a hard no on another shedding dog.

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  6. I so enjoyed reading about and felt the love you have for Remy. Our sweet black lab, Annabelle, was our first family pet and lived to be 15. As you well know, there have been other puppies to follow her and we loved/love them all so very much. I just can’t imagine life without a fur baby. And speaking of that, I am sure it was a great welcome at home, not just from Barb, but Zoey and Dakota.

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    1. Dakota barked at me like I was an intruder and did not belong there! She quickly warmed up and is back to her normal self.

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  7. The whole family will always remember Remy. How he survived being run over twice is a wonder!
    This has definitely been a warm, dry spring. We seem to have jumped right into summer. 90s predicted already for a few days come Sunday! I hope they get some rain for the farm.
    Welcome home!! :)

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    1. It seems like everywhere is getting rain except North Dakota! Remy walks with quite the limp(s) but he gets around as his drive is stronger than any pain he might have.

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  8. Lovely testament to a great old dog. They make such a difference in our lives.

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    1. You, more than anyone, knows the love and joy a dog can bring to ones life.

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  9. Nicely done. I too am going through that with Moose. He is definitely showing his age and it chokes me up every time I think about him aging. Now get that garage done before we get there because I will be on vacation. The only work I will do is supervisory.

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    1. I haven't even touched the garage in the past few days, you need something to do when you get here!

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  10. Oh that brought tears to my eyes. The connection to our pets can run so deep. What a great life has had lived on the farm. Take care of that thumb. Fishing season is almost here!

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    1. Do you ever see yourself getting another dog? As much love as they bring, they do tie you down too. Personally, I think we will always have at least one dog.

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  11. My dog Ted was a great friend and loyal family dog, but wasn't much of a hunter or protector. I have never gotten another dog after he died and will likely never. It was a one and done for me.

    You can tell someone is a farmer by asking them how's the weather this year. The farmer starts their answers with, "It would be better if...", even if the crops growing in the fields are proving to be the best they've ever seen.

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    1. Sounds like Ted was your "once in a lifetime" dog! You are right about farmers approach to weather, they just never seem to be happy.

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  12. That was a wonderful tribute to Remy Jim, pets really do become family members. Glad to hear it was a successful planting season and you returned home safely with all your fingers and toes…well with the exception of your thumb. I guess it’s time tackle that to do list Barb has waiting for ya. 🤣 Cheers!

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    1. Barb is pretty good at managing all the things on the "to do" list, but I have one of my own and have been hitting it hard already!

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  13. What a nice tribute to Remy. Pets are definitely a part of the family and sorely missed when they are gone. Hope your thumb continues to improve. Should you have a doctor look at it in case in could heal better with some taping or something similar? I say that because my sister hesitated to go to the doctor for a toe injury and is paying for that decision years later.

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    1. I have a brace on it and that seems to help a lot. Keeps it from moving and has protection when it gets bumped.

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  14. Like Remi everyone and everything are on a timer. It just hurts more when it is a trust-worthy pet that you've shared many adventures with.
    Your thumb could be the result of gripping tools or steering wheels. It takes its toll.
    Stay Safe and Enjoy being home with your family.

    It's about time.

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    1. I have a feeling it has something to do with repetitive use from working on the shed. That is the only thing I can think of.

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  15. What a beautiful tribute to a beloved family member. It is indeed sad that you may not see Remy on your return trip to the farm, Jim. Hope the thumb improves in time and sure that Barb will be glad to have you back home (well mostly).

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    1. Remy has been around longer than each of the kids, he is definitely a member of that family and will leave a hole when he is gone.

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  16. It will be tough when Remy goes I am sure. My 2 dogs are both getting old. Pete is 11. Maddie is either 12 or 13. Plus Maddie is diabetic . That has aged her so much in the past year. It's always hard to see them age, isn't it? And it's nice you made it home too. Have a super weekend.

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    1. Very hard, you can see the age and struggle in his eyes. You can also see the love and will to live too. Who knows, maybe he will surprise us all and rally through the summer.

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  17. What a good post, Jim. Poor old Remy. Poor family. He sure has been a good boy.
    5500 acres just boggles my mind!
    Here's hoping that ol thumb heals quickly!

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    1. 5500 acres is a very decent farm, but there are some even bigger in the area!

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  18. Lovely little girl there and you were lucky to witness a first.
    Hope your thumb gets better soon - nothing like a sore thumb!
    Lovely reading about Remy, such a beautiful dog going toward the end of the days - a faithful pet and working dog for sure.
    Decent size farm there, we have one in Tasmania and it's 54,000 acres and our largest.

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    1. You take your thumb for granted until you no longer have use of it, then you feel absolutely ridiculous!

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  19. Dogs, babies and farm life! Great post! Hope these is rain soon! Wish we could share.

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    1. It seems like it is raining everywhere but up there! Hopefully they get some very soon!

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  20. There's always good years and bad years ... some easy, some hard. You plow on through no matter which it is. So very sad about Remy. We all know that's going to happen but it makes me cry every time. Brings back memories too ... that was the name of my best cutting horse I lost several years ago. As for your thumb, you are probably lucky it's still there.

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    1. This year's planting season was definitely one that they will remember. Now, let's hope that the growing season is a good one as well!

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  21. I bet your gang is very glad to have you home. Hope your thumb heals quickly! Losing a pet is one of life's hardest things and yes, we all do have one pet that was one of life's greatest joys--our little Emmi that we lost almost two years ago was that pet. We love Kayce but just thinking of Emmi can still bring on the tears.

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    1. We feel the same way about Daisy, we love Zoey, but Daisy was one special little girl.

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  22. It's always tough to see them get older, especially when they've been such a big part of the family for so long. The way you described his personality really brought him to life, and it’s clear how much he means to everyone. I’m sure his spirit will live on in the memories and in all the little things he did. Wishing Remy peace in his golden years, and hoping the planting season turns out just as well as the start.

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  23. Little Tessa is so adorable...especially with the hat on her head. And Remi...he is a beautiful dog/pet. I laughed about the Fed-ex guy and the UPS driver..My grandson is a temporary driver for Fed-ex and he finishes his college degree, and he often talks about the dogs that don't like his truck..I'll have to advise him to take some doggie treats with him...Hope your thumb heals quickly....Please tell Barb Happy Mother's day weekend.

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    1. I tell you, it will work. Maybe not the first time, but they will learn that that truck means treats, not a threat!

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  24. Remy is so cute. It's hard when our pets get older. My little Falcor just turned 11 years . He's Chihuahua and Jack Russell and both those breeds live along time so I'm hoping he has many years left with us.

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    1. I am guessing your little Falcor is also pretty high strung? Both of those breeds are pretty active, put them together and who knows who chaos will ensue!

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  25. Living with my own special old Tessa dog who loves every second of life is bittersweet every day. Sweet recognition of Rem's contribution to his tribe. Wow that was a quick planting - yay!! Baby Tessa is a cutie too :-))

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  26. We were so lucky to get Indy before Bubba passed yet after Skruffy passed. Only wish after Dad passed (just before Skruffy) we could have got a replacement Dad..but that just isn't to be....

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    1. I think it is a great idea to get a puppy (or dog) before your older dog passes. It not only gives you something to focus on and love, but the new dog also often mellows out the pup.

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  27. It's nice to visit and see what you're keeping busy with. And busy you certainly sound.
    Sorry about your faithful friend Remy. He obviously has a big spot in your life and it's hard to see him come to the end of a life well lived.

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    1. Remy has been a great hunter and family dog. Dogs like that are few and far between.

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  28. thecontemplativecat here. Remy is a beautiful dog, with a lot of gray appearing. Our gr-dog is Lucy, weighs about 75 lbs, and she loves us. She had to have hip surgery and eventually will need one on the other side. Lucy is 10 yrs old now, and I hope she stays with us all. Shelby and Portia were the predecessors, and they had to be put down. what precious friends dogs can be.

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    1. Hoping that Lucy makes it through her surgery. It is obvious from the amount of care you give her that she is very very loved.

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  29. Beautiful dog. Aging is not easy.. not for us and I'm sure not for him.

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    1. I think dogs take aging and pain much better than us humans for sure.

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  30. Such a heartfelt tribute to a truly special companion. It’s sad knowing Remy’s time is nearing, but his presence will always be felt on the farm and in the hearts of those who loved him. Hoping your thumb heals up soon!

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    1. I agree with you that his presence will always be felt!

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  31. It is a real blessing to have a protector and a companion like Remy. I am sad to know his time is near but I love the picture of his spirit being on the porch. Those memories will be a treasure. Tessa is precious! She has a darling expression on her face. Sounds like a very successful planting season. I hope your thumb is 100% soon.

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    1. Remy will be on that porch for years to come monitoring who is coming and going from the house.

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  32. Welcome home. It is so hard to say goodbye to a family pet, no matter how old we are. When I was doing grief counseling for children, one girl in our group was far more focused on the death of her cat than of her grandfather. Grief is a hard thing for children to wrap their brains around. Remy sounds like a wonderful dog, a family member who has been part of many years experience. I feel for all of you who loved him.

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    1. That was admirable work you did as a counselor. I can understand the young girl's grief for her cat. At that age it probably meant the world to her.

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  33. Seeing a beloved dog grow older and slower is hard. You just wish for them to slip quietly away in their sleep.

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    1. That is exactly what they are hoping for, the decision to put a pet down is one of the hardest to make.

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  34. Hi Jim and Barb. Beautiful dog and baby. Have a nice day ! Greets

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    1. Tessa is absolutely adorable and always has a smile on her face.

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  35. Oh my heart feels such sadness for Remy's family with that time coming close. Yes, I am lucky. My Dakota AKA THE KING was that dog. He came to me late in life, but he was my best of all times bud. He laid with me, laid close to me, wanted to be with me all the time when I had my rough bad days. He was there for me during the good days. He was ODD, really ODD, but he was my bud and I do miss him. Thank goodness I had Lily, Dakotas other bestie when I lost Dakota. I can't even image what life would have been like without several dogs through my life and I can't image people not ever having that.

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    1. I could not agree with you more. Dogs provide so much love and comfort just by laying next to you.

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  36. Glad planting was a success and the damage you left behind was minimal...haha! Beautiful story about Remy:) Hope your thumb heals up quickly because I know there are projects waiting for you at home. John brought you two up yesterday. One of our town parks is erecting a statue to a town fellow that was killed in Afghanistan. They have working on the dirt part of the plot for over two weeks!! There seems to be a lot talk and little action. John said we needed to bring in Jim and Barb. They'd have it done in a couple days! Haha!

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    1. That is funny right there! Really, leveling out a spot for a statue and compacting it should only take a day at the most, form it up the next day and pout the concrete the 3rd day. Sounds like government work in action, milking it out in both time and money.

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  37. rem, remy...such a beautiful dog!! chris and holly will feel such a tremendous loss, the children too!! i hope the thumb heals quickly...you are hard working and loving, but don't you know that you should never close with a baby picture....babies steal show!!

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