It seems like forever ago that we had the windstorm that knocked out power and so many trees. While it may seem like a distant memory, the evidence still remains. I have about half of the trees cut up. I was doing a couple trees a day until a few days ago, then I got distracted and went onto other projects like doing some small jobs in the new garage.
Christmas was low key with just Barb and I hanging out with the girls until the early afternoon. We still buy each other presents as it brings us joy to not only give, but to receive presents. What did I did I get for Christmas? Some were things we would have bought ourselves in the next couple months, but it is fun to unwrap them and see what Barb thought I needed. A couple pair of pants, some socks, sweatshirts, fishing lures and a couple of cellular trail cameras. Those things are the bomb! I used to balk at them thinking they were too expensive for the initial purchase as well as the monthly subscription cost. But having instant access to the pictures and not having to drive out and get the SD cards has its benefits.
What did I get Barb? Some of you will laugh, some of you will shake your head, but Barb does not want for traditional things like clothing or jewelry. I got her a bunch of woodworking tools for her new shop, some socks, and wait for it... a new set of pots and pans! Before you start drafting your hate comments, hear me out. It is what she wanted, what she asked for. She has been drooling over this Gordon Ramsey Hex Clad cookware for months and who I am to deny her the pleasure of cooking me a great meal in new cookware?
That afternoon, Dan and Bonnie came over for a delicious prime rib dinner! We watched football and stuffed ourselves silly.
A couple days later we ventured out of the house to our friend Greg's house. Greg is an incredible artist and surprised us with a beautiful painting for our house. We now have two Lester originals! Kevin and Cheryl live next door to Greg and were the 4th and 5th to our group. We had a great couple of hours sitting by the fire outside and enjoying each other's company.
The next day was my birthday! Well, not really, we were two days early, but we were celebrating it that day as Barb was going to be gone on my actual birthday. More presents, more food, more quiet time with my bride. We stuffed ourselves with king crab legs to the point of uncomfortableness. So good!
Two days later was departure day for Barb. She was to fly out of Rapid City to Baltimore for a 5 day stay at our daughter Jessica's before those two jumped on another plane for a week-long stay in Puerto Rico. Unfortunately, Barb's flight out of Rapid was cancelled and she did not fly out until the following day. I could write an entire blog post on the hours we spent online and, on the phone, trying to rebook that flight. I will tell you one thing though; Delta has to be the most noncustomer friendly airlines we have ever dealt with. They are more interested in getting a few more dollars out of their customers than they are in accommodating their customer's needs. But regardless, she finally got out to Jessica's and is having a good time.
As we were driving to the airport, we talked about the last time we had flown. For me, we came up with January of 2017. For a guy who used to fly a couple times a month back in the day, it is interesting that I have not flown for almost 9 years.
Another thought occurred to me as I dropped her off. That thought was how much airline travel has changed in our lifetime. Some of the young'ins out there would just find it unbelievable that we were able to fly without showing any form of ID whatsoever. In fact, back in the day, I used to fly using a variety of names. Let me explain, we had a travel department at work and they looked for the cheapest airfare to our store locations. The cheapest flights were often roundtrip tickets with a couple weeks between flights. They would book numerous roundtrip tickets each month under various names and if I needed to ticket to say, Chicago, they would open a drawer and hand me a ticket for the day I wanted to travel and another ticket for my return date.
These tickets, more often than not, would have another coworker's name on it, but back in the mid-80's/early 90's, you were not required to show ID to fly, just present your ticket. I remember one time, I was sitting in the terminal waiting to board when over the PA the attendant announced, "Will Dan Ruetten please come to the podium". We have a Dan Ruetten who worked for us, and I immediately started looking around for him to see if he was on my same flight. Nope, no sign of Dan. The attendant called again, it was then that I realized that I was Dan! The ticket I had been given for this flight had Dan's name on it. I went to the desk, and they handed me my ticket saying I had left it in the restroom.
Of course one would never get away with this nowadays. Here are a couple other oddities that younger travelers just would not understand. Back then you could smoke on flights. It was not until 1988 that they banned smoking on flight less than 2 hours. Also, back then anyone could go to the terminal, no security checkpoints, you just walked in and went pretty much wherever you wanted.
Speaking of oddities. Have you ever received a package that looked like this?
Leave it to Farmer Bob, who also collects stamps, to send a package with some of his leftover stamps! I wonder what the post office thought when they sorted this package. Did they even count and add up the total postage? I'll tell you one thing, they did not invalidate the stamps, so I theoretically put something back into it and mail it back to Bob!
So, what did I do on my actual birthday? For the first time ever, I spent my birthday alone (Cue sad violin music). To be fair, I did get a pity invite to go out to supper from Dan and Bonnie. Another first is that I am spending almost two weeks alone in the house! I have talked about this before, but I still find it bizarre that while Barb cumulatively has spent an equivalent of almost a year by herself in our house. I have spent maybe one or two nights by myself in the house. Crazy to think about.
New year's eve day found me working on a new project which will be revealed in a few weeks. That afternoon I hit the woods for one last sit in the deer stand. After getting out in the woods 75 of the last 85 days, this day is the last day of the season. Tomorrow marks the first day of a new year. As I sat there and reflected on the year, the highs, the lows, the laughter and the tears. It was not long ago the death of a friend or family member was a rarity. Now, it is happening all too frequently. I guess that is to be expected as we age, but it does not make it any easier.
I look forward to 2026 like I do with each one of my hunts; full of optimism for what could be. What could be if we put in the effort. And we will be putting in the effort this year if all goes as planned, it will be one of our busiest in quite a while.
I will leave you with another video and a picture. The video was taken earlier this week. The turkeys were having a reunion. I tried counting them, but it was impossible. I quit at 80 and there were still more coming! The picture? Would you believe I took it less than 5 minutes ago? I am sitting here writing the blog, look outside and this guy is bedded right outside the house!




And it was before I started flying much, but people used to dress up to fly. But I guess that they used to dress up for a lot more than they do these days. Sounds like good holidays at your house. Now the challenge is not to get into too much trouble while Barb is away.
ReplyDeleteThe only trouble I am likely to get into is drying her jeans when I do the laundry. Believe me, I will not make that mistake again! I have never left the house in sweatpants; it is a minimum of jeans for me if I am going out in public.
DeleteYour friend is a very talented artist. I love to fly but absolutely hate the airport experience. Wow…I think you could supply you county with Christmas turkeys!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year and all the best in 2026 to you and Barb!
He really is. He has more artistic talent in his right pinky than I do in my entire body!
DeleteAs a teen, my friends and I would sometimes drive out to Dulles airport--it was new back then!--and just people-watch. It was my first time to see people in turban and such, and ro hear foreign languages spoken. I also remember people going to airports for dinner, as some airports had good restaurants. I haven't flown since 2022, I think? When I went to LA and Miami on the same trip to see family.
ReplyDeleteSo sad you were alone on your birthday! But I have a feeling you are enjoying the time by yourself. I know I do when Larry is away. Just be careful, keep your phone with you just in case, and try not to get into too much mischief!
I totally forgot about going out to eat at airports. We never did it, but I do remember other people doing it.
DeleteFunny you should say that about keeping my phone close to me. As you know, I am doing things out in the woods a lot by myself. I sometime find myself getting the phone out of the side by side right before I do something "sketchy" just in case.
Forgot to say, happy birthday and happy new year!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteWow. I cannot believe how much older you are than I am. Maybe that's why I have always looked up to you as my senior. That was one of my resolutions this year. To be positive and blow sunshine up everyone's butt. Have I told you lately that you don't look a day over 75. You really don't. I hope that you can live for so long without Barb. Please post a picture of the house the day before she gets home. It will be interesting to see if a human can survive for two weeks living on water and fur balls from under the couch.
ReplyDeleteHow is that resolution any different than any other year? Why don't you make a resolution that actually will have a positive impact on your life like eating healthier and drinking less? That Chinese food you are eating is full of sodium and should be cut out completely!
DeleteHappy Birthday Jim. Wow that is a lot of turkeys, you will never starve with your pantry just walking by all the time.
ReplyDeleteThey do not taste nearly as good as one would think, but in the right situation, you are darn right I would eat one!
DeletePS I also received the hexclad fry pans and the griddle. They are awesome.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know how many times Barb has said, "I love these pans" in the short time that she has had them!
DeleteSeems like a nice holiday, and now you will have another type of holiday on your own. By holiday there, I don't mean a lucky break but just a different sort of time.
ReplyDeleteI do not know if I would call it a holiday, it is a lot of work doing double duty!
DeleteGood morning Jim…happy birthday and Happy New Year! You and Barb are always so busy so it’s hard to try and figure out how 2026 can be even busier! You are so right about this aging thing. Although much better than the alternative, there seem to more tears of sadness but, the joyful times seem to be more frequent! Life is good!
ReplyDeleteLife is good, too many people seem to forget that and focus on the negative making themselves and those around them miserable.
DeleteHappy Birthday! 🥳🎂
ReplyDeleteWow! It looks like a turkey ranch out there.
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Thank you!
DeleteHappy Belated Birthday! Sorry you had to spend it alone, but I'm sure Barb made sure you were well taken care of....
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of flying "in the old days", we have many of those same memories. The smoking sections on American flights was particularly vexing for us. Once, when we boarded with non smoking tickets and that section was already full, the stewardess (yes, that's what we called them then) just moved the "non-smoking section" sign one row back and - voila! We had seats in the new section. Problem was, everyone in the plane directly in front of us was smoking and we rode in a haze of grey. ugh. The next time we flew to Europe we drove up to Toronto to fly out on AirCanada because they were one of the first non-smoking airlines. You live and learn!
Have a happy, healthy and grateful New Year.....
I grew up with that gray haze, in our house and our cars. That and the constant coughing all night long is why I was never a smoker.
Deleteslice the turkey breast, batter it, and Chicken Fry! Then ask Barb to make some nice spicy cream gravy and cover liberally! Also on the mashed taters! In your case pair the meal with a glass of Wild Turkey! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteThat all sounds very good! I do like me a good chicken fried steak.
DeleteHappy New Year!! I hate to say it but all 3 major US airlines are customer unfriendly these days, you don't want to hear about how horrible American Airlines was on a couple of flights, glad Barb finally made it to your daughter's! Hoping the new year brings both of you good health and new adventures!
ReplyDeleteThat is very discouraging. Maybe it was because I was flying corporately, but I remember them bending over backwards to make sure you were happy.
DeleteBelated Birthday, Christmas and New Years wishes.
ReplyDeleteIt is funny how animals seem to know when Hunting Season is over.
I remember flying before and after 9-11 and the differences were very noticeable.
Stay Safe and Enjoy your next adventure.
It's about time.
Do you think the deer read the hunting regs and have meetings to see who is going to taunt me once the season is over? I would tend to agree with you!
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