Thursday, February 19, 2026

I am not Spoiled!

 I utter those words almost every morning as Barb hands me a tray containing my breakfast as I lay in bed. I've talked about it before, but living in 70 square feet with your spouse and two dogs does come with it's challenges. Especially when your spouse believes that there is a place for everything and everything must be in its place. And for me, that place is on the bed with Zoey. 

I am not allowed off the bed unless it is to go to the bathroom or getting ready to go out and do something. And if I do get down, Barb has to be seated at the dinette or out of the camper altogether. It is for this reason. I get breakfast in bed many mornings. A typical morning will go something like this; she will get up and take the dogs out. This is my cue to get up while they are gone and get ready for the day. By the time she gets back I am back up on the bed watching news on my phone. If we have internet, I will read a few blogs, but that is tough on my phone. 

She will then feed the dogs, make her coffee and drink it while looking at her phone. When she is done, she will say something like, "What are you thinking for breakfast?" Travel days are usually something simple like a bagel, English muffin or snack biscuits, but on non-travel days it could be bacon, eggs and toast, or even blueberry pancakes! She then makes breakfast, puts it on a cookie sheet and hands it to me in while I am on the bed. I take it from her, many times saying the 4 words in the title. "I am not spoiled. She usually says, "No, honey, you are not spoiled" and sits down to have her breakfast.

It's a rough life and the struggle is real, but I get by day by day.

Dakota's place is under the dinette. Most of the time. We find evidence of her being up on the bed while we are gone and have caught her up there a time or two. She will even make her presence known at night if I happen to be having a snack in bed at night. I will bear her rustling around down there, the camper will shake, the dinette will bounce and soon enough her head will pop up over the top of the bench seat with a look that says. "Wha'tcha got pappa?". I will either throw her something or invite her up on the bed. Believe me, it gets a little crowded up here with two dogs and two humans in bed!

Speaking of struggles. Poor Dakota. She is getting along pretty well with me helping her in and out of the camper and truck, but she had an incident this week that was just horrible. She was getting out of the camper and I had a hold of her collar to assist her. I don't really do to much except keep her from hitting the ground too hard when she takes that last jump off the stairs. We have done this dozens of times on this trip without incident....until.... Until she was jumping down and one of her hind legs got caught in the stairs and she was splayed out hind leg outstretched on top of the stairs and head in the dirt. I quickly released her hind legs and got her down on the ground. She seemed fine, She did not yelp (she never does) but she was limping. It was then that I noticed this on the stairs. 

An entire claw had been removed. I cannot even begin to imagine how bad that must have hurt, or was still hurting. Imagine getting your entire toenail ripped totally off!. We got her in the truck and drove to Tractor Supply where we bought some antibiotic cream, gauze and vet wrap. 5 minutes later she was all doctored up. Oh, and we gave her a doggie pain pill. 

She had gotten her claw stuck in one of the holes in the stair treads and then she jumped. The treads have since been covered.

I do not know how she is doing it, but she now walks around like nothing happened despite having the entire flesh on one claw totally exposed. I would be curled up in the fetal position (on the bed) crying like a baby. 

This happened on the day we met up with our friend Dale and Ruth. Quartzsite friends from back in the day. They bought a house in Tucson and travel during the summer. We spent a couple hours with them hiking a trail in the Saguaro National Park before heading to lunch and then happy hour at their house. 

Maybe it was because it was Saturday. Maybe it was because it was Valentine's Day. Maybe it was because it was Zoey's 5th birthday, but the parking lot at the park was absolutely packed! The trail was not as bad though and we had a great hike. The flora, although not in full bloom, there were enough to keep our cameras busy.

It was a great day (except for the Dakota incident).

Our first two days in Tucson we used our Harvest Host membership to stay at breweries. First Catalina Brewing Company and then Button Brew House. They were less than a 1/4 mile apart and both were roadside parking. 

The cool thing about Catalina is the fact that the brewery is filled old time pinball machines. How cool is that?!?! We put a few dollars in the machines and a couple of beers in our bellies before calling it a night. 

The next day and the two after that we got to hang out with Dan and Bonnie! They flew down from Custer to see Bonnie's brother (Bruce) and sister-in-law (Becky) who also live in Tucson during the winter. Dan had found us a place to park our camper for a few days at a horse facility about 15 minutes from Bruce and Becky's place. 

Some of you may find this weird, others of you will relate, but there is just something about the smell of a horse barn that triggers a sense of calm and ease. At least it does for us. It brought back memories of all the years we had horses. If they could bottle or make a candle with that scent, we would be customers for life. 

Horse Haven might not be the best facility in Tucson, but it was perfect for us, it was clean and you could tell the horses were well cared for. 

Over the next three days we got together with Dan, Bonnie, Bruce and Becky each day. Going out to eat, exploring the area breweries/distilleries and going to the top of Mount Lemmon which was snow covered and colder than it was back in South Dakota! Del Bac was the only distillery we could find in the area. They mainly distilled Single Malt Whiskeys. not my favorite. 

The views going up Mount Lemmon were incredible. 

When we got back down to the bottom we went to Guadalajara's, one of Barb's favorite restaurants in the area.  

Dan and Bonnie have been coming to this area for years and showed us some of their favorite places. One of which is the Tanque Verde Ranch which offers rooms, tours, horseback rides and a restaurant/saloon.  They must have over 100 head of horses on this ranch!

All too soon, it was time to hit the road again and head east. As we were traveling east along Interstate 10 in New Mexico, the wind started picking up and this warning came across our phones.
And sure enough, soon we started to see clouds of dust ahead of us. A few miles later, it enveloped us, but it was not too bad. 
We made it all the way across New Mexico that first day, spending the night at Camping World in Anthony, Texas. We have a special meet up/event planned. I am not sure if it is going to work out yet, but we are headed east in the hopes it will!

Meanwhile, while all that is happening, we get this email from back home. All of our mail is scanned and the images emailed to us each day.  One day this image is included as one of thing pieces of mail we are getting. The postmark is from Fargo North Dakota, the return address from JL Beer. We have been there, they provide free postcards for drunk patrons to write and send postcards to people across the country.  The address was right, the sender got our last name right, but that is all that make sense. The sender must have had one too many beers as we definitely do not know Jethro and Bambi!

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  1. A few happenings on your journey. Poor Dakota, must of really hurt her but it probably happened quickly but still..!
    Nice photos of everyone, the brewery and dust storms are not good, gets into everything. Take care, have fun and yes, you are spoilt! :)

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    1. Wow, the first commenter and you turn against me?!?!?
      They say it can take up to more than a month for it to heal. Hopefully it is sooner.

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  2. Hello,
    Your little home on wheels looks nice inside, just enough room for you, Barb and the 2 dogs. The Blueberry pancakes look yummy. I am glad Dakota is doing ok after breaking off her nail. Hubby and I were able to visit Mt Lemmon and Saguaro NP, both had beautiful views. I loved the wildflowers and cactus. Take care, enjoy your day and have a great weekend.

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    1. I vast contrast to the east coast for sure. Certainly not as many birds to photograph!

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  3. Ahhh poor Dakota!! They make covers for those steps. I would be staying at that horse ranch for the YEAR!! It's true about the smell of horses ....... and cattle are a close second.

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    1. There must be something wrong with us for us to think those are good smells!

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  4. Poor Dakota indeed. One can imagine how painful that was!

    Those dust storms must be quite frightening! Glad it wasn’t too bad.

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    1. I cringe every time I think about that nail being ripped off. Those nerve endings exposed like that must be very painful.

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  5. Prayers for Dakota's healing
    What a trip y'all are having. Horses, breweries and good friends! Life is good.
    May

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    1. It was so good being up close and personal with a few horses, it has been a while!

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  6. Your morning routine makes sense given the situation. You do have quite a fulsome breakfast.

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  7. Compared to you, I am definitely not spoiled!

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  8. LOL 😂. Can sure relate to the 70’ square space and who and what belongs where!!

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    1. You pretty much have to if you are going to live months on end in such a small space!

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  9. Yikes…poor Dakota! Mt. Lemmon is an awesome drive, especially on a clear day. I can’t believe how many bike riders we have seen pedaling to the top! That’s great you got a hike in with Dale and Ruth. Safe travels!

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    1. That was our second time up there, both times had snow. We saw a dozen or so bike riders making their way up the mountain as well. Just crazy!

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  10. Poor Dakota. One of our shepherds, Hope, did the same thing, ripping out her toenail on a log. Good thing they grow back. Breakfast in bed, you are a lucky man. :)

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    1. Maybe I am such a good husband that she thinks I deserve it? Did that ever cross your mind? Probably not, and rightly so.

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  11. Hi guys! I am so sorry to read about Dakota’s toe…ouch! What a sweet pup she is! And so happy to read you had a fun time with friends in Tucson. It’s hard to think that it would be colder in Arizona (Mt Lemon) than in SD. We have yet to make that trek in the winter, but want to someday. We love the “quac lady” and guacamole made to order! It is always fun to see other folks favorite places and also always fun to share your favorite places…one of the many reasons we always enjoy friends! Dust storms are no fun…safe travels!

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    1. You should really make that trek, it is not that far and you would really enjoy it!

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  12. It was great to see you guys, we enjoyed the hike, lunch and just hanging out on our patio with the dogs afterwards. I think our kitties took a full day to settle down from having Zoey trying to invade their territory inside the house. Both continued to look out the back slider door to make sure she wasn't still there. Glad Dakota is recovering but still so sorry she was injured. Safe travels to Texas, maybe we'll see you in Montana in August.

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    1. That's funny. Could you imagine how traumatized they would have been had Zoey actually made it into the house?!?!

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  13. You can bet we all winced when we read about Dakota's mishap. I hope she is continuing to heal.
    A few years ago, we visited a pinball museum in Virginia. It was filled with vintage machines, and the price of admission included play on any of them you wanted. It was a lot of fun.

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    1. We will have to remember that pinball museum, that would be a blast!

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  14. Poor Dakota. I can relate to her toenail pain as just recently I had an ingrown toenail removed. I can send you the pictures again if you would like. I know what to get you for your next birthday. A box of horse manure. You can put it under your couch and have the aroma all of the time. That post card came from the heart. I expect to see it framed and hanging on the wall when we get there next. I hear that you like to receive gifts. That post card could be a keepsake. Love the blog.

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    1. Yes, I am sure the pain from your tiny little ingrown toenail equals Dakota totally getting her claw ripped off.

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  15. 1. Yes you are spoiled. And 2. Yes you are spoiled! Lots of fun in AZ! Looks like we missed you by a week. We’re in AZ now. Poor Dakota! Hurley had that happen as well then we covered ours. NM is notorious for those winds!

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    1. That only counts as one vote for me being spoiled, just because you said it twice does not mean you get two votes. Unless one of those votes is from Steve as he would never say that. How does that saying go?, Bros before.......

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  16. I, too, love the smell of a horse barn, so I guess I'm another weirdo! If you ever find that candle, let me know. I'll be a customer for life! And, if you find one that smells like the end of a horse's nose, I'm really in!

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    1. Kindred spirits I tell you! Fellow travelers, dog lovers, hikers and now fellow horse poop smellers. I knew we had a lot in common!

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  17. Poor Dakota, it must have hurt. Older dogs have struggles some days. Wow breakfast in bed…you sure hit the jackpot with Barb! The desert photos are great enjoy the warmth!

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    1. You do not have to tell me, I knew I hit the jackpot after our first date!

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  18. You…spoiled? No, I believe it is Barb who is spoiled. You obey all her commands without talking back…just like Dakota. I’ll bet she rubs behind your ears and tells you that you are a good boy. :)

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    1. See, you get it! And yes, sometimes I do wake up and she is petting my head like a dog.

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  19. The post card is funny. I love that they do that.
    Poor Dakota. I hope the toe is healing.
    Breakfast in bed, nice!

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    1. The only place I have seen that is at JL Beers in North Dakota, I am not sure is they have stores anywhere else or not.

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  20. Breakfast in bed, blueberry pancakes, and dogs for company--sounds pretty spoiled to me, but in the best way!
    Poor Dakota!
    Glad she’s bouncing back so quickly.

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    1. Yes, definitely in the best way possible! Breakfasts are somewhat limited on the road but that is a good one!

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  21. WHY is it that the ladies in our lives want to "down-size", then take the ONLY seat in the place that you can be on a computer in a true sitting position? Our Van is as small as your camper...she gets the one chair that turns around to where a table can be pulled out...while I have to sit on one bed, with my feet between both beds, and my computer sitting on the other bed across the aisleway. I have learned to do my blog that way, but all other Internet stuff is on a phone of a Kindle Fire. Poor Dakota, she really needs smarter parents who would have noticed those holes and thought.... (just joking...glad she is ok)

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    1. Probably because they like to see us suffer and be in misery! But such is life, the rewards outweigh the misery they put us through.

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    2. Forgot to mention....I LOVE those old Pinball machines. The ones from the 1960's to 1980's are the best...but then sometime in the 80's they became to much "electronics" and by the '90s, to much "computerized".

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    3. We played the oldest one they had which I am guessing was from the 70's. The rest of them were the more electronic ones which I did not care for as much.

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  22. Poor Dakota that sounds very painful.
    You can deny it all you want but it does sound like you are spoiled...lol
    Saguaro National Park is a beautiful!
    Glad to read you made it through New Mexico and the dust was not to bad...

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    1. I think that is like 10-1 saying that I am spoiled and that "1" is me!

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  23. Makes me so sad for Dakota. I know this was so painful but yet he was a trooper. Yes...I think you might be a lot spoiled and it appears that Barb is the one who causes it. lol. You all are seeing some beautiful country and eating some good food along the way.

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    1. Barb is an enabler for sure. Sometimes when it gets to be too much and I take something for granted, I will say, "Hey, you created this monster!"

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  24. Well, Gini immediately wanted to know why Barb wasn't the one getting breakfast in bed, but after reading the whole post she kind/sorta understands. I told her it was "logistics" but she gave me "the look" so I stopped explaining.

    So sorry about Dakota and hope the healing is quick. Good to hear you made it through that dust storm without incident.

    Wonderful photos from the park!
    Y'all be careful out there.

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    1. I have made Barb breakfast a couple times in our past 40 years. She has asked me never to do it again.

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  25. Poor Dakota. How do they manage to bounce back so fast, but that had to be awful. I'm glad you could figure out what was so wrong so quickly. It's interesting for me to hear how you manage your space in the RV. Seems like it could get complicated but breakfast in bed is a good bargain!

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    1. I do not know. Different nerve endings? Higher pain tolerance? Whatever it is, it is amazing.

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  26. You're certainly having a lot of fun on your trip. That's how it should be!
    Poor Dakota. It always amazes me the way animals can be so stoic and show no discomfort, even when it is clear they ought to be. Thankfully, they tend to heal faster than we humans.

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    1. I do not know how they do it, if I had lost a nail I would be curled up in the fetal position sucking my thumb!

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  27. Look at me...two blogs in one day! Wahoo! So glad Dakota is all right. He is getting great care from his mom and dad. Yes, you are spoiled! But that is Barb's (and my fault...John is spoiled also) fault. I do, however, understand her wanted everything in it place. You took some great photos of your royal treatment!!

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    1. Woah, aren't you an overachiever! John and I are very lucky to have such wonderful women in our lives!

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  28. Poor Dakota. It is just heartbreaking when they get hurt. You did all the right things, now the healing begins.
    Sounds pretty cramped in there, but your routine sounds very organized. Yep, you're spoiled! And Zoey looks extremely comfy!
    Safe travels as you continue on your travels!

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    1. Dakota seems to be fine. It bleeds once in a while, but I think the worst of it is over.

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  29. Tucson is wonderful.. loved the food and the Saguaro National Park was also very nice. Poor Dakota.

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    1. Of all the cities in Arizona, I would have to say that Tucson is probably our favorite!

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  30. Of course, you are not spoiled, Jim, anyone can see that as you were lying in bed with Zoey and Barb came to serve breakfast 😏 Sorry to read and see Dakota's mishap and hope recovery continues, What fun meetups you are having with friends, not to mention that gorgeous scenery. After all your hard work back home, this is a nice break for sure.

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    1. Finally, someone who sees things through my eyes! I have been working hard and do deserve to be pampered!

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  31. you are spoiled and you know it!! barb is a lovely, very special woman. you guys should do the postcard thing. whenever you stop at a special city or place you love. buy 2 postcards, fill them in with your favorite memories. you send yours to barb, she sends hers to you...back home. when you get home, you will have a great scrapbook of memories. beautiful pictures today, i really enjoyed them. poor dakota!!

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    1. Great idea! We used to send postcards to the grandkids when they were younger. Maybe we need to get back into that habit as well!

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  32. What adventures you have! I really enjoyed understanding how you manage.

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    1. While it might not work for everyone, this routine does work for us.

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  33. Oh you are Not spoiled-grin. Our dog Miss Maddie lost part of a claw once too. It didn't seem to bother her once it was pulled, but she was also limping before. Good thing they grow back. And nice hike views too. Somehow I never saw this post, but now I'm off to your latest to see where you've been. Hope the doggies are ok there too and that you haven't had too many breakfasts in bed. :)

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    1. Dakota has a constant limp as well so it is hard to tell if the missing claw is bothering her.

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  34. Ouch! I am still wincing about poor Dakota! Apart from that, I enjoyed reading about this latest adventure. A fun life on the road and I surely enjoy my virtual traveling with you and Barb. You may be spoiled but I'm sure you do some spoiling of your own. You're both worth it :)

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    1. Do you have breakfast in bed as well? Might not work out as well waiting for breakfast virtually!

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