Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Barbie Saved my Life

 Camper on, boat hooked up we pulled out of the driveway and headed out on our next great adventure. We had 4 destinations in sight arriving at our first one 6 hours later. Lake Oahe, just outside of Pierre South Dakota is known for its excellent walleye fishing, we have wanted to fish it for years and we left a day early so we could add it to our list on this adventure. 

Not really enough time to properly explore it, but enough time to get a feel for what it is like. And bonus, unbeknownst to us, two friends of ours have a place within a mile of our campsite! I knew friends Bob and Barb have fished all over the state, so I contacted them for information on Oahe as we were going to be stopping by for a two-night, one day trip. They asked where we were staying and when I told them Cow Creek Campground, they said they had a place very close and would stay an extra day to show us around!

Cow Creek is a great campground, overlooking the lake, boat launch nearby and an awesome fish cleaning station complete with a commercial grinder to grind the fish carcasses once you have fileted them. 

At this point each of you have read "Oahe" three times, and if you are like me, you have been pronouncing it wrong. Then if you look it up it says to pronounce it "Oh-wah-hee", newscasters seem to pronounce it "A-wah-hee" and locals just call it "Wah-hee". Oahe Lake is part of the Missouri River system and was created in 1958 with the construction of a dam and now is one of the best fisheries in the state. 

Bob and Barb picked us up at our campground that evening and we headed out for supper at a local restaurant; burgers all around except for me who opted for the steak bites. I should have gotten a burger. The bites were tough and chewy. In fact, this is where I got in trouble, when one got stuck in my throat. At first, I was not worried, thinking a sip of my drink would help. No such luck. It was then I knew I was in trouble and did exactly what you were not supposed to do; I got up and started walking away from the table, not being able to breathe at all. I got to the other side of the dining room still not being able to breathe and looked back at the table. Barb was staring at me, and I signaled her to come over. I continued to walk into the hallway and she followed. I was not able to talk to her, but she knew something was up. She asked, "Do you need the Heimlich?". By now we were near the restrooms, and I grabbed her arm and pulled her into the men's room. Again, not the smartest move. Inside, I raised my arms over my head, and she gave me a good squeeze from behind and I was able to partially breathe. 

Then another guy came in. Not to check on me mind you, but to use the urinal. I was leaning over the sink making struggled breathing noises, Barb was rubbing my back. He unzips and does his thing, talking to us like its another Sunday on the lake. I was soon able to breathe normally again, and we returned to the table like nothing had happened. Talk about scary though, I have never had anything like that happen before. So, now I guess I am forever indebted to her for saving my life and will be her servitude for eternity. Basically, no change from before the incident. 

The next morning, we met Bob and Barb at the boat launch where we both launched our boats and we were off! We fished four or so hours, I caught one smallmouth bass and Bob caught one Sheephead. Apparently, the fish were still "upriver" from spawning and had not made it down this far yet. But any day on the water is better than a day working so we had no complaints. 

We loaded the boats up and met them at another restaurant for an incident free meal. 

The following morning, we were off for our next destination, Devil's Lake, 5.5 hours and 340 miles to the northeast in North Dakota. 3 hours into our trip as we were turning east on I94, we decided to pivot and go to a different lake just an hour to the north, canceled our Devil's Lake reservations, and made some new ones at East Totten Trail Campground on Audubon Lake. This is another new to us lake. The bonus is that we were only 30 or so minutes from The Farm! A quick text, and we had arrangements to meet Farmer Bob and DeAnne for supper!

Our reason for getting up in this area at all was for their son Dylan's wedding on Saturday. We decided to hit the road a week early and make a fishing trip out of it. At supper, we talked about farm life and everything they have been doing in preparation for the wedding (more on that next week). It was great to see them and will see more of them in a few days. 

Throughout the week we received pictures from the kids out east. Our daughter Jessica's family and son Forrest's family were on a joint vacation at Myrtle Beach. They have been doing this annual trip for several years and it really warms our hearts knowing they get together like this. The kids are really growing up!

The whole gang minus Shane

Jessica during her birthday celebration!
All the girls; Somer, Kendall, Lily and Jess playing mini golf, then Somer, Jess and Shane on the beach.
Cousins Lily and Kendall and our kids, Jessica and Forrest. 
Meanwhile, back in North Dakota, we had high hopes for Audubon Lake. We had heard a lot about it and were anxious to get on the water. At 25,000 acres it is a huge body of water, quite intimidating to fish if you have never been on it before. Where does one even start looking for fish on water this big?

Once we got the boat launched Barb drove the truck back to the campground to get it plugged back in so the girls would have AC. It was going to be in the 90's the next few days. This lake is known for its abundant walleye and big smallmouth bass, a cousin to the largemouth bass. 

Over the next three days we caught dozens of walleyes using both bottom bouncers and jigging. We also got several huge smallies, the biggest of which was just over 18 1/2"s!


What a fun lake! We will definitely be back. We left early Saturday morning and headed to The Farm in preparation for the wedding. The wedding was not until 4pm, but we wanted to get there early and make sure the electrical we were going to be plugged into would handle the air conditioner in the camper as it was going to be close to 100°f. We did not want to leave for the wedding and worry about whether or not the AC was keeping the girls cool while we were gone. Good thing we did too as the first two circuits we tried could not handle the load and the breaker kept popping. We finally found one that worked. While we were waiting for 4pm we helped set up a few things in shop for the wedding reception. The transformation of the shop was incredible! 
300 chairs, dozens of tables, a full bar, a dozen or so roasting pans full of pulled pork, baked beans and macaroni and cheese. It was hard to believe that this building is usually used to house farm equipment. While we were doing that, we got a sneak peek at the bride as she was heading to the church. Absolutely stunning. 
 
Before we knew it, we were off to Camp of the Cross on Lake Sakakawea. By now it was a scorching 100°f. We got to the church about 3:50 and were back in the truck about 30 minutes later headed back to the farm. The wedding was short and sweet, which was perfect given the heat.


Back at the farm, it was time to party! They had a DJ, music and games. Barb and I got to visit with many relatives we had not seen in quite a while and meet a few new ones (Hi Steve!). The partying went on well into the morning. While we went to bed around 11pm, I could still hear that hooting and hollering until about 3:30am. The next morning was pretty quiet, and people were moving pretty slow. Barb and I were up early and started the clean-up process. When we walked into the shop it looked like a bomb went off in there! We did not get a picture, but there were cups and cans everywhere, a broken chair or two, a broken table, fireworks debris, at least one broken bottle and an entire garbage can of popcorn on the floor. Looks like the young'ins had a good time!

Over the next three hours we were joined by 6 or more, so helpers and we had the curtains down, chairs and tables stacked and much of the floor swept. It was then that it dawned on me to take a picture. 

We could not check into our next campground until 3pm, so we hung out in our camper until about 2pm enjoying the AC. The next two days were going to be over 100°f, absolutely brutally hot. 

We arrived at Lake Sakakawea about just before 3pm and got all set up before meeting up with more friends. Yes, we have friends on this lake as well! Well, I did. Kent is a contractor that does a lot of work with Chris and Dylan and is also quite the fisherman! He and his wife Penny have had a place on the lake for about 5 years. Kent picked us up in his golf cart and we went back to their house for a walleye dinner. Delicious! Kent, and I, along with this nephew Josh hit the water to see if we could catch a few walleyes to replenish their supply. We caught a couple, but it was pretty slow. 

The next morning Barb and I hit the water early. Here is a fun fact on Sakakawea, it is the third largest man-made lake behind Lake Powell and Lake Mead. Did I mention it was hot? Sitting on that big body of water with the sun beating down on you was like being in a frying pan, we were basically two pieces of bacon out there. Our bare feet were burning on the carpet on the floor, and you would actually burn your hands on the metal net handle when you netted fish!
We fished for about 6 hours before we decided to call it quits. We caught a couple dozen fish, 8 of which we kept to bring home with us. I dropped Barb off at shore near our campsite and she walked to get the truck. While I was waiting for her at the landing, Kent pulled up beside me in his boat. He too had a livewell full of fish so we met at the fish cleaning station to clean them up. Out of curiosity, I grabbed my digital thermometer, pointed it at the seat in Kent's boat and pulled the trigger....165°f or then I did his floor, 172°f. I then went over to our boat and did the same, ours was a mere 135°f with the lighter colored carpet. 

The next day was supposed to be more of the same so Barb, and I decided to head home a day early. We went to supper with Kent and Penny at Ranchman's 23 Saloon, a nice, down-to-earth place with good food. What a good time. Kent and Penny are really good people. 

The drive home the next day was 7 hours, we took turns driving and made it home about 2:30pm. As we were unpacking the UPS truck pulls up to the house. Talk about good timing! He hands me a package from my good (now even better) friend Tom in Minnesota. What in the world would Tom be sending me? Tom and I met in, I think, 1982 when we both worked at J.C. Penney's in Roseville Minnesota as undercover security catching shoplifters. He is kind of guy who makes a job fun, we had so many good times back then. I went inside to open it up and my jaw about hit the floor. 
It was a bottle of my nemesis, the holy grail of my bourbon hunting, the one that has eluded me for over two years! There was also a note that said "Thanks for being such a good friend over the years". After reading the note a tear trickled down my cheek. I do not know if it was the note or the bottle I was holding in my hand, maybe a little of both. What a perfect ending to a great 10 day get-away, I am truly blessed. 

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  1. Wow that is hot! Too hot for this kid. Instead of fishing on the lake, I would have been in it! Nice to have an adventure though. Soon new puppy time!

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    1. I thought about jumping in a time or two but did not know if I could get back in the boat. I took my shirt off and dunked it instead.

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  2. Looks like you guys had a fabulous trip regardless of those temps. You must have felt like bacon with all that water reflection while fishing. I wonder what that guy in the washroom was thinking you two were up to when you were choking. That must have been a terrifying experience for you. Cheers!

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    1. He did not seem phased, he just went about his business while idly talking to us.

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  3. That had to be so scary, so glad Barb was able to help you out! What great friends you have all over! Lakes are beautiful! Sounds like a great trip. You have a beautiful family, those kids are really growing. Love the closeness between them. The wedding was gorgeous! Beautiful bride and the perfect place for the wedding and the reception! :)
    Ken and Shirley

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    1. I see you posted a blog this week. We had limited service so I need to play catch up. I thought of you two during the wedding, this is the type of wedding that you two would have enjoyed.

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  4. What a great getaway, so glad Barb saved your life! This heat has been brutal, this heat dome has been awful in Wyoming, we picked the wrong year to travel here.

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    1. Wyoming had to be brutal. Hopefully you had fun despite the heat.

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  5. Scary stuff choking! Good thing Barb had an eye on you. How nice to be out fishing even if it was hot! Nice Bass! Have you ever made lures with your 3-D printer? Fun wedding. Cute pics of the fam! It’s always nice to see them together as adults.

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    1. There are plenty of designs for lures, but I have yet to make any. I think I need a more pliable filament then will try it.

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  6. My great, great grandpappy Cletus always told us younguns "to always chew your food before you swig your whiskey". It also seems like a lot of hard work to get a free meal. Grandpappy Cletus used to say "save time and money just get a filet-o-fish sandwich at McDonald's".

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    1. Can you believe that I did not even get a free meal after choking on their tough and chewy steak bits?!?!? A filet-o-fish would have been a much better option.

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  7. Except for the choking issue it sounds like a wonderful trip.

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    1. It was a good week, I wish we had more time on each of the lakes.

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  8. We had a woman choke at a restaurant near us and the Heimlich didn’t work. Luckily, the place had just bought a LifeVac and knew how to use it. Now, half the people in the county (including us) have one.

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    1. I have never heard of the LifeVac, just looked it up. Looks like something we will have to get as well!

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  9. finally....you have written about something i am an expert on, choking. the hubs has "schlotzsky's ring", food gets stuck all the time. i have spent many a time in a mens bathroom with him in helping to dislodge food. every so often, he has surgery to dilate the area of the esophagitis that has narrowed. we've had some close calls, trips to the ER and he never eats steak. so barb to the rescue, she is wonder woman i belief, is there anything she is not good at?? the rest of the trip sounds like it went well, looks like the fishing was really good!! pretty wedding pictures, the bride is beautiful!!

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    1. I have heard of that condition, it sounds like a horrible thing to have to deal with. It was pretty terrifying to me at the moment; I have never had that happen before.

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  10. Such a scary experience, but I’m glad Barb was quick to step in!
    You’re surrounded by great people and gorgeous places. Those lakes are incredible. The trip sounded full of fun and family, and the wedding looked absolutely lovely.
    The bride was radiant, and the reception setup was perfect!

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    1. Yes, to both the gorgeous places and great people, it was a awesome trip!

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  11. Goodness me you were lucky after eating that steak and I've heard of that happening before. You certainly won't repeat that again and thank goodness for Barb.
    Lots of fishing and fruitful too. Looks a good wedding even in the heat.
    Take care and I enjoyed the photos.

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    1. The wedding was incredible despite the heat, what a great event.

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  12. If I ever see the bet "Will Jim eat steak bites for supper tonight" on Kalshi, I'll put all my chips on 'No'!

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    1. Only if we go to that restaurant, otherwise it is about even money.

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  13. Hello,
    I am so glad Barb was able to help you, choking on food is something my hubby has problems with too. Sounds like you had a great trip, fishing, the wedding and meeting up with friends along the way. It has been to hot and humid here, we still need more rain. Take care, Happy Friday! Have a great weekend.

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    1. We need rain here as well. The pond is about dried up, another week with no rain and it will be gone again.

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  14. Correct me if I am wrong, but hasn't Barb been saving your life since you met? You crammed a lot in 10 days. But you did not mention at all the big campground brawl I heard about.

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    1. Daily, there is no way I could function let alone live without her. No, no mention of the campground drama I already brought the post down with the choking incident, I did not want to bring it down even more by bringing that up.

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  15. One lucky dude you are!!! Note to self .... chew that stuff longer!!! Thank the Good Lord she knew what was wrong and fixed you right up. You better let her win the next ten fishing competitions!!!

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    1. I know, totally my fault, those pieces we so dang tough! She does not need me to "let" her win, she does that on her own!

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  16. Yeah for Barb saving your life! That was really scary. I have learned not to talk while eating as I am prone to choking for some reason. Looks like a good fishing trip! The heat has been horrid...looks like the wedding was good even in the heat.

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    1. You guess have the heat and humidity to go along with that heat, and now the smoke! Hopefully it cools down soon and the smoke dissipates.

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  17. Just another reason that Barb is a "keeper"! Mmmmm, Walleye says Dave...

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  18. Those were some big walleye! Glad you had a good time, the girls stayed cool, the wedding was fun and that your survived your steak bites! That is so scary! Long ago, I had to perform the Heimlich on my Dad in a crowded restaurant in Big Timber--very scary! It was so hot here last weekend--105 degrees on Sunday! Cool gift from a good friend!

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    1. Ugh, that is scorching hot! So hot that you cannot really do anything outside. It has "cooled" off into the 90's and 80's, we can do stuff outside, but nothing too physical.

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  19. That's great, I'm glad she was able to help you. That sounds scary.
    A Lot of people showed up for the wedding. She looked great in her dress.

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    1. They invited only a fraction of that number to the actual wedding, but the reception was huge! Even so, they had a ton of food left over, I think it was so hot no one was eating.

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  20. JIM! Ugh I was absolutely terrified reading of your near-death experience in the restaurant. Of course I knew you survived since you were writing about it, but good grief you scared me!!!!! I have a phobia of choking to death. I think it's because I read many years ago about a lady who lived alone being found dead at her table, having choked on a piece of meat. I have to really slow down when I eat steak because I'm so terrified of this. Next time have the burger!!! I mean it!!! Now you know I'm not much for camping and even less for fishing, but I love a wedding. The bride really did look beautiful and it sounds like a good time was had by all. I know you're glad to be home! It's stifling here too but we are making the best of it. Love to Barb and the doggos 🐾♥️🏴‍☠️

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    1. I think you guys are smokey there too right? Thankfully we are smoke-free. I can see how that could happen if you lived alone, what a horrible way to die. Although I think it would be quick!

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  21. So glad Barb knows you so well and could tell something was wrong. Glad you're alright. Boy, those walleye are beautiful. Sure wish I was there for a fish fry. I notice that there was no mention of the catch amount so I assume Barb out fished you again! You have the nicest friends. That bourbon was such a sweet surprise.

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    1. Actually, it was I who was the big winner on the last day! It was tough fishing on Sakakawea for the first few hours, but once we found them, we started catching them pretty regular.

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  22. Oh goodness...glad Barb was able to help you...strange that the guy would go ahead and do his business without even bothering to ask if everything was okay. You are so right...I was pronouncing Oahe totally wrong... lol. Congratulations to the lovely couple... so sweet... And...you have a beautiful family. also, congrats to you all on the big fish...Very nice..

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    1. Makes me wonder, had I been laying on the floor unconscious, would he have just stepped over me?

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  23. It’s a scary thing to not be able to catch your breath. It happened to me once as I got choked on water that went down the wrong way and I could not get any air…thought I was a goner for a minute or two! We all need to practice that Heimlich procedure…kudos to Barb! I love your family photos! What a wonderful feeling of joy you and Barb must have knowing your family is happy and enjoying life and sharing time with each other. Dylan has a beautiful bride…best wishes the the newly weds! And no picture of Macie…it’s getting g close to pick-up time!

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    1. I thought about the Masie picture as I was finishing up but thought the post was long enough and there will be plenty in the future.

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  24. Except for the steak tips (thank goodness for Barb) it looks like a fabulous time. I like these weddings that are not at big fancy and expensive places. Why does anyone need that? (and the debt it can bring on). And hurrah for finally getting the bottle you've been dreaming of. And the fish too. So far we haven't had the best luck this year but I suspect Monday we might going out and trying again.

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    1. Agreed, this was a down to earth event without a lot of fanfare and expense. Just as it should be. Good luck fishing today!

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  25. Another memorable trip! Happiness is having a loved one who knows her Heimlich!
    All the images are terrific, but I keep returning to those smallies. Nice. I'm hungry.

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    1. Those were some of the nicest smallies we have ever seen. I think I might go back to that lake for just the smallies! I am not sure Barb even knew how to do the Heimlich, but she did well!

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  26. yup, you are in servitude forever. And well done, Barb! I wonder what the guy who came into the restroom at the moment told his dinner companions when he left?! Huge fish, that was, and the wedding sounds great! Glad you lived to tell the tale.

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    1. There were about 6 groups in the dining during the incident, I am not sure how many, if any, realized something was going on.

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  27. That's quite a post and a very enjoyable one. The bride as you say looked stunning. I wish the happy couple many years of happiness together. Scary about your experience choking. Happened to me with a small piece of mozzarella off a pizza years ago and it was years before I could eat melted mozzarella again. All that aside, you two sure have wonderful adventures together and I feel lucky you share them with us all out here. Have a great week!

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    1. We too wish them years of happiness. It is so good to their happiness and the joy of what the future could bring them.

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  28. Hello Jim, Just wanted to leave a quick note to say thank you for this fantastic article!

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  29. A lot to unpack in this post, but dang, Jim, don't up and die over something like that! How scary. I had to laugh about the guy coming in the bathroom though.
    Tom is a good and generous friend ibdeed!

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  30. Glad you are OK, Jim, and what a terrible experience just reading about it afterwards. Glad that barb was quick thinking and saved your life. The wedding looks like it was a fun event and the bride was lovely and very happy.

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    1. It's been over two weeks since that incident, it is now a distant memory and will hopefully never happen again.

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  31. Every day is an adventure with you! That is very scary about the food stuck in your throat though. I'm glad it went down! And I loved the bride pics and seeing pics of your travels. I need to GET OUT of this place! lol Hugs, Diane...stuck in the heat of Florida!

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    1. I could not imagine being in Florida during the summer. Such a beautiful state, but that heat and humidity...ugh!

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  32. I grew up below Lake Oahe, down by West Bend and Joe Creek. What a close call. I would probably get up and wander off also. Sounds like quite a wedding party. It was nice of you to clean up.

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    1. I had to look up where West Bend was. We were not too far away from there. Must have been nice growing up where the fishing as so good!

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  33. You have so many friends and have such fun!

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