There is no denying it we are getting old, and for some reason this past two weeks I have been feeling it. Some days we wake up and jump out of bed ready for the day, others we roll out of bed and limp, moan and crack our way to the couch where we will sit for an hour trying to convince our bodies into action.
There is nothing wrong with getting old, in fact we have embraced it looking forward to growing old together. We have also noticed changes in our routine, bodies and other signs of aging over the years. I thought I would share a few of our observations. Most of these relate to our lives while others we have observed in friends of ours.
So without further ado here is our list of signs you are getting old.
You know you are getting old when...
You are coming home for a night out on the town and you have to stop and wait for the school bus to drop off kids in front of you.
The main topic of conversation at dinner with your friends relates to doctor appointments and aches and pains.
Before you go out to dinner you and your spouse have a conversation on which meal you are going to split.
When you have to go to the bathroom, you have to go NOW instead of waiting until the next commercial.
You wake up to use the bathroom at night for the first time and you could still catch the 9:00 news.
You start naming the deer, birds and other wildlife that visit your feeders.
You have conversations with said deer, birds and wildlife.
You spend more money each month feeding the wildlife than you do feeding yourself.
Several of our deer friends stopped by for breakfast |
On another morning the turkeys joined them |
Last but not least, Your kids start calling dibs on stuff in your house when you die.
I could go on and on but there is no doubt about it and no stopping it, we are getting old. So why not embrace it and make the best of it!
We have not been out doing too much, just working on the house. The projects we have been working on have not had a significant visual impact but are steps to reaching our end goal and getting things done.
Installed the tile backer in the dog wash area.
Just need to seal the seams and build the base then we are ready for tile! |
Barb painted the can light covers so they blend in better with the bug wood.
The light covers used to be white |
And we installed the corners, stair lights and 1x6 diagonal sections going up the stairs.
The corner (on the left side) was cut out of a 2x2 I hollowed out and wrapped around the corner. The lights are above every other stair tread and the diagonal goes up the right side of the stairs. |
One day we spent several hours cleaning the garage. Over the past few months it has been our main work and storage area. We installed some wood storage shelves (on the far wall), swept, vacuumed and got everything cleaned up so we can get it dirty all over again.
All clean ready to mess up again! |
We also got the under-cabinet lights installed in the kitchen!
It has been 3 weeks since we lost Daisy and we still miss her everyday. Life is....just different without her here. I cannot watch my favorite hunting show without thinking about her. No matter what she was doing she would tear into the room and attack the TV when she heard the theme song for the show and sometimes I swear I see her out of the corner of my eye while walking around the house.
Barb saw this image on the internet the other day, we were both a wreck after seeing it.
Dakota is getting better, she has seemed to have perked up and getting back to normal. We take her for more walks which she loves, she is always happy when we go for walks. One big change we have noticed in her is that she is a lot more aggressive when someone knocks on the door. She barks like crazy where in the past she never used to do that.
Saturday morning Kevin and I went Mountain Lion hunting. We had received several inches of snow overnight which makes it ideal for hunting as you can cut a track and then follow it and hopefully get the mountain lion before it gets you. But we did not cut any tracks so we basically just spent the morning driving around. The hills are so beautiful after a fresh snow....
That afternoon Barb, Kevin and I went into Rapid City to the annual stock show and rodeo. Despite the pandemic they had record attendance. I guess people are really itching to get out! In one area we found show participants primping and prepping their cattle for a judging event. It is amazing the level of detail they go through to get their animals ready.
We just love watching the horses perform. It is amazing at how well some of these horses were trained! It is hard to say which is our favorite events. Barb's is definitely barrel racing while if I had to pick, I would say bull riding. It is amazing that those guys can stay on those beasts.
It takes a well trained horse to run with a flag and sparkler! |
Bareback |
Calf Roping |
This saddle broc'er did not last too long |
Steer wrestling |
Team roping |
Barb's fav, barrel racing! |
There is one guy who actually trained his horses and a zebra to climb on top of his horse trailer!
We did not get home until after midnight, that was a first in quite a while!
Sunday marked a milestone. The 12,775th day that Barb and I have been married. Yep, 35 years! I told her it feels like we met just yesterday and with a somber and defeated expression she replied "Really, it feels like 2 lifetimes ago to me" I took that to mean that she loved me so much she wanted to spend multiple lifetimes with me!
We celebrated the day by having Kevin and Cheryl as well as Doug and Lisa over for The Big Game. That reminds me, you know you are old when you have no idea who the half time performer was. We were hoping for a little more competitive game but you have to give it to Tampa's defense shutting down KC like that. And Tom brady? Well, he is Tom Brady. It was cool to see Gronk get 2 (almost 3) touchdowns. Not bad for a retired guy!
It had been a bit on the cool side the past few days with highs in the single digits and lows below 0 but nothing like our friends in North Dakota and Minnesota are getting! Guess it is a week for more indoor projects!
I love that Gronk came out of retirement to play with Brady. It was a good game, although not all that exciting. Bull riding is my favorite too, only because I've known so many riders. I've ridden plenty of broncs, but would never even THINK of getting on a bull. Those guys have guts!!! Happy anniversary!!!
ReplyDeleteSo now we have to wait and see if either of them retire this off season!
DeleteI had to Google who the half time performer was. I'm way older than you.
DeleteI am certainly glad that we were not the only ones who had no idea who that was!
DeleteLots of good times and It's always good to get older! It's great seeing the Barndominiom updates each week, you've come along ways since we were there in spring of 2019! Happy Anniversary, Jan and I are right behind you!
ReplyDeleteI know, we look back at the pictures when you and others were here to help and are amazed at where we are at today!
DeleteYou know it is cold when the thermometer says -26 just after you are woke up by your son who calls to say his house is at 40 degrees and needs batteries for the thermostat. At least no wind. Glad we don't have livestock.
ReplyDeleteHopefully, no pipes froze, it would be nearly impossible to thaw them out in that weather!
DeleteI am so pleased to hear that your, finally getting to my level. I was old years ago and you have been acting so young. Well take that Geritol and stuff into your depends, you Senior Citizens! House looks great.
ReplyDeleteWe are not quite to the Depends and Geritol level yet but we will let you know and you can send us some!
DeleteYour forgot to mention you can’t trust a fart when you get older. 🤣 We’d not heard of the Canadian entertainer The Weeknd until recently. Apparently he spent 7 million $ of his own money for that show!
ReplyDeleteBelieve me I thought about that one! Unbelievable that he spent 7 million of his own money on that show, I guess the underwear they up on their faces was expensive!
DeleteOh I hear ya on the feeling old part, but you guys aren't that old if you stayed out at the rodeo till midnight. The house is looking great. Love the under cabinet lighting and range.
ReplyDeleteWe were pretty impressed with ourselves for staying out that late but we paid for it the next day!
DeleteWe laughed as we can certainly identify with the getting older part of the blog :) Love a good rodeo and that one certainly looks like fun! Love that it looks normal there, people enjoying! Good for South Dakota! Your home is really looking awesome, love the updates.
ReplyDeleteProperty is selling like crazy out here right now as people from other states are moving here to get away from the restrictions.
DeleteJust this morning Indy heard the theme song to Rawhide and came running to the TV...she loves those horses and the cattle! Also, just yesterday, I saw Skruffy out of the corner of my eye. Last year at this time it happened multiple times daily...now it seems it is down to once or twice a week. Love the dog meme...so very true that is.
ReplyDeleteIt is funny how some dogs can learn their favorite theme songs while others totally ignore the TV altogether.
DeleteThe halftime show got the same reaction out of us. As a matter of fact, I had to walk out of the room, as all those mirrors were giving me vertigo!
ReplyDeleteI can just picture the two of you staring at the TV thinking, what the h#ll I am watching?!?!?
DeleteWow, you have a dog wash area. That is a luxury and comes handy. Your garage is huge!! The stock and rodeo show I would have loved to watch also. We don't have that here. I'm surprised though that so many people went to see it with all that Covid-19 situation going on.
ReplyDeleteWe had originally built the garage to fit the 5th wheel, now we can fill it with more stuff!
DeleteHappy Anniversary! House looks really nice! Hope we get to see it in person some day! Love all the “getting old” observations - a big one for me (since the onset of the big “M”) has been inability to sleep - either I’m awake for 2 hours before falling asleep at all, or I fall asleep then I’m awake for 2/3 hours in the middle of the night. It makes me crazy! Stay warm you guys!
ReplyDeleteOh, we have become accustom to waking up and one of is watching TV or looking on their iPad as we too have bizarre sleeping patterns.
DeleteWell you got me sniffling taking about sweet Daisy and that dog angel graphic got me. Your home is really coming along. I have to say that your photos from the rodeo are fabulous. Happy 35 years. Don't want to talk about that ridiculous half time show. I think it is just a rumour that he comes from this side of the border.
ReplyDeleteI am now just finding out that he was from Canada, did not even know that!
DeleteHappy Anniversary!! And we can relate to many of the "getting old" statements!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Cori, it seems like every month we discover something new that we could add to that list!
DeleteI'm kinda surprised "the weekend" isn't familiar to many of you?? We say it every Friday generally ?! Ryan Reynolds is Canadian too lol.
ReplyDeleteYour work on the house is great as always and the garage looks very organised and clean. Cheers to the dog graphic, still talk about our missing dogs. They always stay in your heart.
Well, to be fair, most of us are a lot older than you and are not up on these new age artists!
DeleteSpeaking of getting old and not knowing who the halftime performer was, I always feel out of touch when I walk through the check out line at the grocery store and have no idea who the tabloid magazines are talking about. "WHO got divorced? Never heard of em!" It's happening more and more lately. :)
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary!!
Well, I don't know if we should feel better or worse as you are a lot younger than us!
DeleteRegard getting old, we might find ourselves drooling when we didn't plan on it.
ReplyDeleteA GPS for us tells us when we get to where we were going and also tells us why we wanted to go there in the first place. Bob
Ain't that the truth! At least you now how to operate the GPS to get where you want to be!
DeleteYou know your getting old when your kids start demanding to know where have you been at 9:00 in the evening.
ReplyDeleteYou've definitely have been busy with the house.
It will take time to get over Daisy being gone.
Happy Anniversary.
Be Safe and Enjoy!
It's about time.
We have not had to worry about that one yet, we could be missing for days before our kids even notice!
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