Sunday, February 11, 2024

Headed up the West Coast of Florida

 Why is it, in a world full of jerks, the good ones always seem to go early? The world lost a good one this week when my friend Greg passed away at the age of 72 from cancer. We worked together at Cub back in the day. He a Store Director, me in various positions where I visited his store. A dedicated, easy-going man, Greg was always easy to get along with and receptive to suggestions and change. 

Although I had not seen him in a number of years, we communicated every month or so and was one of those guys who you knew were always going to be a good friend no matter the years that have passed. I am not ashamed to say I shed some tears upon hearing his diagnosis and again at his eventual passing. This picture will be how I will always remember him, a strong, fun-living man fill of life. He may be gone but will never be forgotten. 

We arrived at my sister's place in Fort Myer's on Friday afternoon after a 6-hour drive from Big Pine Key. Judy and Mike have had a place in Fort Myer's for several years, spending most of their winters down here. That was until Ian hit in September of '22 making their house inhabitable. Over the past 18 months they have been busy fixing and renovating it making it better than it ever was.

Judy had something planned for each of our days here. The first day was involved to trip down to Fort Myer's Beach, just 4 miles from their house, it is about a 20-minute drive. The beach area is about halfway rebuilt from the hurricane. Our first stop, The Blue Whale is just a tent at the moment. The building was completely destroyed. They do have a full bar though as well as food trucks and live music. Our next stop, the Lani Kai Island Resort. The resort itself was still under reconstruction but the bar was open. We had one, okay two, of their famous Rum Runners before heading to Snug Harbor Restaurant for supper. Very good food!

The next day, Judy had reserved us a tour at the Wicked Dolphin Distillery. They mainly distill rum, which I have a particular interest in. I asked the distiller several questions that would help me should distilling rum ever become legal in South Dakota. 
We were off to Doc Ford's for supper. This was even better than the night before! Then it was off to Bonita Bill's for one more before heading home. 
The evidence of the hurricane is still pretty much everywhere you go. 
Of course, we asked if there were any projects we could do to keep us busy while we were here. Although most of the reconstruction had already been done, there was one project Mike said we could do. That is replace the sliding door leading to the back yard. 

Since the house is stucco, we had to grind out the area around the old door so we could get to the flange to remove the old door. 
Mike solicited help from his friend Bill to help us put the new one in. 
Before we knew it, it was time to pack up and head on down the road. North, we went out of Fort Myers. We arrived in Sarasota about 10:30am and took the girls for a walk around the waterfront.
I am told this is a Banyan tree
There were a few dollars in yachts there as well. 
The reason for stopping here was not to take the girls for a walk, but to meet a former co-worker of Barb's. Shirley and Barb had worked together for almost 20 years before Shirley had retired shortly before Barb did. She and her husband Al winter down here in Florida and they were on our travel route so we made arrangements to stop and have lunch with them at Marina Jack's. 
We spent about 90 minutes chatting and catching up before we said our goodbyes and headed on our way. 

Then it was off to our friends Mike and Liz up in Citrus Springs for what was supposed to be a 2 night stay. We had met Mike and Liz up in Alaska in 2016. Where did we meet them? A brewery in Fairbanks of course! We hit it off right away and have been in contact ever since. They have the perfect little spot for visiting friends with a concrete pad, electric and water, right next to their house.
After getting settled in we headed to their shed where they have an awesome happy hour area set up. 
Mike and Liz have a little dog named Tux. And when I say little, I mean ginormous! This dog makes Dakota look like a teacup poodle. 
The cool thing about Tux is that he loves to play with Zoey and is as gentle as can be. They have a fenced in backyard so Zoey can be off leash and run. And run, and run. She was in heaven. Tux was lumbering behind her while Zoey zipped through the yard. Dakota just sat back and watched the antics. Tux just knocks Zoey around with his head and paws and Zoey just keeps coming back for more. That was until Zoey picked up Tux's favorite toy. Then all hell broke loose and Tux went all Cujo on Zoey. No biting, but Tux lunged at Zoey with a vicious bark and then hovered over her growling. This was the first time we have ever heard Zoey squeal like she is scared. Usually, she goes on the offensive and attacks, but not this time! Zoey has not gone near that toy since. 

Although I did not get a video of that incident, we did get a couple others. Mike took one while we were in the shed and Barb got one of them playing out in the yard. A few things to notice in the videos; one is how big Tux is compared to even Dakota, how Tux uses his head to bounce Zoey around and how Mike has the heater on in the shed because it was sooooo... cold. 60 something, I think. On more than one occasion Tux would be playing near that heater and left the scent of burning hair in the air when his tail got too close.

 The next day was our 38th anniversary! We were up and on the road at 6:30 because Mike had scheduled us a fishing charter as an anniversary present! We went with Windy Day 2 Fishing Charters, with the owner and guide Misty, on the Withlacoochee River. Our main target fish was crappies, but we caught brim, gar, and catfish in addition to the crappie. It was a great morning and if you are looking for a guide down in this area, you could not go wrong with Misty!



After getting back home and cleaned up, we were off to Mike and Liz's favorite brewery; Copp Brewery and Winery where we got our next surprise. 
Halfway through our visit, Mike whispered something to the bartender who went into the backroom and came out with two bottles of wine. Mike had ordered us two bottles of wine with a picture of Barb, me and Daisy!
We left Mike and Liz's the next morning and were going to head to our friend's Dan and Jeannie's for a  several day visit but we changed plans and laid low the next day hoping to get rid of a nasty cough I had been fighting for about a week. Seriously, this thing has been keeping me up all night with my hacking.

Do you know what is worse than having hacking cough that keeps you up all night in a 100 square foot camper with your wife and two dogs? I'll tell you the answer; being the wife of the guy who has a hacking cough that keeps EVERYONE up all night in a 100 square foot camper! We have been so tired and busy the last few days, we needed a down day. It did not do any good, but at least I was hacking in the comfort our camper.

We hung out at Blue Run Park in Dunnellon where Barb walked the dogs and left me in the camper. I did get out for a couple walks but mostly hung out. The next day Barb and Jeanie went kayaking on the Rainbow River while the girls and I hung out at Blue Run again. Their takeout point was right there at Blue Run so it worked out really well. 




That night we went over to their house for an outdoor supper. After supper I was ready for bed, but Barb and Jeanie wanted to go to listen to the live music at the community clubhouse. So off we went. Me, to the camper, them to the dance. I heard cackling outside the camper at 10:30 when they came back. I also heard a man's voice say "I hope you gals can make it out tomorrow night as well." Then I heard a golf cart putter off into the darkness. This was the only photo shared with me from the night....
Barb said they had a great time listening to the music and fending off 80-year-old men who wanted to dance. She "said" she turned down their requests but did dance with Jeanie and a few of her friends. It was so late, that we decided to stealth camp in their driveway for the night. 

The next morning, I headed back over to Mike and Liz's to continue to recuperate while Barb and Jeanie went to the World Equestrian Center in Ocala to watch jumping. This is the grand area with the hotel in the back. You too can stay there for a mere $600 a night. 

Still not feeling well, we decided to go back to Mike and Liz's for a quiet weekend, which bring us to today. Where we just hung out all day waiting for the Big Game. It is about to start; I have $20 on the Chief's to win against my nephew-in-law Ryan up in Spearfish. Go Chief's!

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  1. A very busy schedule indeed.
    By the size of Tux you would be hurt if he simply sat on you. Glad Zoey was okay.
    You are better off sitting outside to get rid of that bug. Being cooped up inside the Camper with all the germs does not help.
    Looks like Barb was enjoying herself.
    Be Safe and Enjoy the game.

    It's about time.

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    1. Believe it or not Tux is a lap dog too!

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    2. I do seem to breath a lot better outside than inside. I shall take your wise advice!

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  2. Wow! You have a lot of good friends in a lot of good places.

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    1. We were just talking about that! We are very fortunate indeed!

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  3. Hope you feel improved.
    You are having fun there, mighty big fish - the dogs are good to watch and Happy Anniversary.

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    1. At least someone appreciates the dog videos, Harry certainly doesn't!

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  4. So sorry to hear about your friend. The older we get the more people we say goodbye to. :(
    What a great time! Love seeing the dog escapades! I hope you are feeling better. Check for covid if you can. There's a respiratory version going around with a cold/cough. That's what it turned out Leah had.
    I don't watch sports so I haven't a clue if you won or not--lol! ;)

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  5. Sorry for the loss of your friend! It sounds like you had a fun time stopping in various places along the Gulf and visiting family and friends. The doggies are all cuties, Tux is a big dog. Very cute! I hope you are feeling better! Congrats on winning the Super Bowl bet. Take care, have a wonderful week!

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  6. I was in Fort Meyers last winter for a few days and the beach was a mess. I'm glad to hear it's coming back together. It looks like you enjoyed your visit. The bird life in Florida is always pretty amazing, isn't it? And it must have been nice to see everyone too. Sorry to hear about your friend though. Where is your next stop?

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    1. We on our way to Apalachicola today, then on to Pensacola.

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  7. Looks like you've been having as good a time as possible while fighting a bug/cough. Glad you got to enjoy some of FL's delights. Rest up and get over it!

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    1. We have two down days tomorrow and the next day. Hopefully that will do the trick to getting me back healthy!

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  8. Sorry about the loss of your friend. It's always hard. Hope your cough gets better, but in the meantime, it looks like Barb knows how to have a good time.

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    1. Barb seems to have a good time wherever she goes. Sometimes she drags unsuspecting friends with her!

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  9. A whirlwind of food and drink. Obviously Zoey thinks she's three foot tall! Sadly, I know the cough of which you speak. I've had it for over two weeks now. Good luck!!

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    1. This cough is killing me. I've been coughing myself into a headache everyday day.
      Zoey has a blast with Tux, but now we are on to our next adventure.

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  10. Hope you cough is better this morning- you are at least $20 richer :). My son apparently bet on the Chiefs but I am not sure how much he won. I was kinda going for the 49´ers just because I like their QB so much but overall I was not emotionally or financially invested. Your travels in Florida sound fun- fishing, friends and the gift of those two bottles with your names and pictures as an anniversary present was super thoughtful. Safe travels!

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    1. I actually like both teams. They both have very likeable players. Mike and Liz are both awesome very nice people.

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  11. Condolences in the loss of your friend. It sounds as if you have some wonderful memories, they will bring you smiles and you will share stories of him with those you care about, he will continue to bring you laughter and warm thoughts.
    Too bad about the cough, they make cheap drugs for that….night time and daytime cough and cold. I would guess at some point Barb might encourage you to take more and more…..maybe that’s why you didn’t get any. lol.
    Congrats on the big win! I didn’t watch but the score looked interesting.
    Now why did I know the answer of the “where did we meet them” line. lol.
    It looks like you have enjoyed the trip up this coast, sister, friends, more and more friends, personalized wine, charters, tours, dinners. Wow……some of those folks really like Bar…..you guys. lol.
    Congrats on the anniversary.
    Safe travels. Feel better soon.

    Deb

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    1. I debated whether or not I should mention Greg in this post. I was not looking for (but appreciate) the condolences. This blog is also a quais record of our lives and I want to always remember him.

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  12. Condolences on the passing of your friend Jim. Looks like you guys had a great day of fishing. Nice to have so many family and friends along your route as tour guides. The bottles of wine were a thoughtful gift. Hope you’re feeling better soon. Take care and safe travels!

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    1. We planned our route to see as many friends and family that we have not seen in a long time. It is working out great and glad we did it this way.

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  13. You have certainly been having fun and staying busy. Tux and Zoey are cute together. Happy Anniversary! And I am sorry to read about your friend.

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    1. Tux and Zoey are such opposites, but they absolutely had a blast together!

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  14. Great game! and you are a little richer. :) Hope your cough gets better soon. Mine is still with me at times from December ... a tough one to get rid of, at least for me. Looks like Barb had a blast with your friends. Show jumping, how fun.

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    1. I am so over this cough. And you are going on 6 weeks or more? I am only on week 3!

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  15. What fun to visit so many friends along the way! They treat you well, too. About that cough: my husband has had it twice this winter. We have relied on the Dayquil/Nyquil regime to get him through, and for mebto be able to sleep. I hope you are better soon. Seems to take 2-3 weeks to shake it.

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    1. Crazy. I've heard the same thing. I am 2 weeks into it and can tell I am improving, but far from 100%.

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  16. Happy belated anniversary. I PM you about your cough. Let me get this straight. You asked your friends you were staying with if they had a project you could do for them? That has never happened at my house even though every time you stayed we had renovations going on. WOW. Drink my beer and leave. We were in Florida. Why didn't you want to get together?

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    1. First off, it was my sister. Secondly, drinking your beer IS a project. You generally have so much of it on hand, I have to dedicate all my time there drinking it.

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  17. You have quite a few friends to visit and company to enjoy. Always sad when a friend passes on. The wine labels make the gift really special.

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    1. I guess the older we get the more it is going to happen, but it is so sad to see friends move on.

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  18. Whew, you guys have been busy! My introverted Cowboy would be beside himself! That is a huge dog! Hope you are feeling better soon--for your sake and for poor Barb's sake!

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    1. As much fun as we are having with our friends and family, we are looking forward to a few days of alone time.

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  19. We hope the memories of your west coast visit outlive your memories of feeling bad. You just covered some of the area where we grew up and still live. We think the Gulf Coast is special and hope you take a bit of that feeling home with you.

    Feel better!

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    1. We were just talking that this area is a place we'd like to spend some more time in. Thinking next time we'll spend a month around here.

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  20. Sorry to hear about Greg. We love kayaking in Florida, we saw a bunch of manatees.

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    1. We did not get to the manatee area this trip. We'll have to do that next time.

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  21. Sorry about the passing of your friend. Happy Anniversary you two! I am sure your sister, family and friends made you feel better and regardless of your cough, I think your trip was worthwhile and fun.

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    1. I am sure each of them were happy to see me leave, this cough is very annoying!

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  22. So sad to lose a friend. RIP.

    I have never heard of any of the fish you caught. Great fun! Hope the cough disappears soon.

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    1. Crappie is a pretty popular fresh water fish, and is delicious!

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  23. Happy anniversary. May your adventures continue for many many years....with no cough!

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  24. That nasty 'cold' (for lack of a better word) is going strong in our area and seems to hang on forever...lucky for us, we have not had it. That area you were visiting (Dunnellon) nearly became our home back in 2020, a little closer to Crystal River actually, but we just decided we did not want to move after all. Love that area, not close to major source of good M.S. doctors though. I sure enjoyed the game...still would have rather seen SF win, but now I am hoping for the first 'three in a row' Super Bowls next year. Hope you feel better soon.

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    1. We really like this area, not too busy, nice weather, good fishing. I can definitely see how you liked it here.

      We will be back!

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  25. Good morning, I enjoy reading about your trips-this one sounds fun reconnecting and enjoying time with them Happy Anniversary love the label on your wine too
    to continued adventures Kathy

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    1. That was really cool of Mike and Liz to have those bottles made for us. I doubt we will ever drink them, just keep them for a show peace. Well, at least one of them.

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  26. PS I loved this super bowl game-very exciting and into overtime as well-Go Chiefs-I will be watching their parade online on the 14th

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    1. I imagine you are pretty happy with the outcome being from the Ozarks!

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  27. This was a great read! Love the picture of Barb laughing, just too cute! Happy Anniversary you two. You definitely have some great friends to have a good time with! The wine is very special. Hope you're over the hump and are feeling better!

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    1. I took love pictures like that of Barb. I don't know how she did it, but she managed to have a good time without me!

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  28. So busy! That’s one fat cat! Are we going to have to have an intervention for you two? I’m getting a little worried.

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    1. Yes, an intervention is definitely in order, come down and join us!

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  29. Just dropped by to say hi and what do I see, fish................
    I do not like fishing and I don't eat seafood , oh well I was here

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    1. You'll probably see more fish and seafood next week as well.

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  30. It's great that you have friends in various spots all the way up through Florida. Sure looks like you are having a wonderful time (well, except for your cough). I noticed there was no photo of the "Fishing Queen" with her many fish!! Tuxedo is soooo cute! Loved the video. Dakota is so shy. Our daughter's MIL lives in Ft Myers and Bonita Bills is one of the hang out places. Love Sarasota. We spent a couple months three winters when we started full-timing just 15 miles up the road in Cortez. It was across the causeway from Anna Maria Island, one of our favorite places. Safe travels! Hope you are feeling better now that the Chiefs won...my team!

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    1. We want to explore the Cortez area next time we get down here. Sarasota is interesting, but too big city for us.
      Fort Myers does have some great food, that is another area we could spend more time.

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  31. Looks like a busy and amazing time with lots of friends. Even the pups had a (mostly) really great Florida experience :-) Sad to see all the damage still part of their world. Hope you're feeling better and enjoyed that great SB game.

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    1. I bet you thought that was a great game. It actually was very good. Not feeling better yet, but it can't go on for much longer Right?

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  32. Happy anniversary and I hope you feel better. Everyone I know who has had this respiratory stuff has a hard time getting rid of it.

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    1. I've heard the same. Sounds like I might have a week or two left of this crap.

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  33. Fun to see what you and Barb have been up to. Sorry to know you have been under the weather. Me too but am glad to be visiting again. Always enjoy your photos, and I love each and everyone, while sad for the aftermath of the hurricane. Take care and happy anniversary.

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    1. I finally had a good night's sleep last night after, I forget how many nights. Perhaps I am the tail end of this thing?

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  34. Our daughter-in-law was born and grew up in Fort Myers. Her grandparents still live there, and they suffered catastrophic loss of their house during the hurricane too. And they too have built back better! These people amaze me with their perseverance in such trials. I love how you have friends everywhere you go, and Barb is always smiling and you are always coughing, hahaha! It's great. When we visited Pittsburgh in the fall of '22, TG had the persistent nagging aggravating never-ending cough which erupted every time he spoke a syllable. Being big baseball fans, we toured PNC park and happened to be the only two on our tour. At one point our guid -- GREAT guy, lifelong Pirates fan -- stepped back from TG and said, I visit my 90-year-old mother every day. Do you have Covid? Haaahahaha NO it was not Covid I said, it is the yearly TG-cough-athon which tests the patience of everyone within 90 MILES. He looked nervous but continued telling us baseball stories. Tux and Zoey's antics remind me of my fat Rizzo (chiweenie) "fighting" with our Erica's infinitesimal Sibi (yorkahuahua or something) interminably, loving every minute of it. No drama over a toy, though, at least not so far. How wonderful of Mike and Liz to commemorate your 38th anniversary in such delightful ways! Congratulations to you both! xoxo

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    1. I am sure some people look at me sideways when I have one of my coughing attacks. At least now, I usually have one or two during the day with the worst of it coming in the morning and night.

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  35. i am so sorry to hear about your friend...billy joel said it best that "only the good die young"!! you guys sure are popular, i read every word of this post and i am now exhausted, you are blessed with a lot of good friends who sure do like to drink and have fun!! happy anniversary, those wine bottles are a great gift and that's a really nice picture of you and barb!! i hope you are feeling better, it's nice to know you were routing for my chiefs. it was not their best performance, especially the first half but the second half and overtime was exciting!! i was so happy we won!!!

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    1. The picture on the wine bottle was from 2016 when we were in Alaska and still had our little Daisy. We really miss her so it is very special.

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  36. Congratulations on your anniversary. I’m sorry to hear that you lost your friend Greg.

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